Why is it not advisable for men to carry women in their arms?

If a person sleeping in a dream sees himself carrying someone in his arms, then first of all you need to pay attention to who exactly he is carrying. Most often, a burden is associated with future events and reflects the emotional state of the dreamer.

The opinion of dream books about what dreams of carrying in one's arms may vary depending on who was being held - a loved one, a relative, a child, an animal.

Meaning in numerous dream books

You can get a definition of sleep in which you are carried in your arms by turning to well-known sources. Interpretation of the dream according to various dream books:

  1. Miller's Dream Book . Holding a cheerful and healthy child means the fulfillment of your plans; holding an upset baby means big life problems. Carrying a boy means a desire to start doing something with your own hands, a girl means the need for support from close people or relatives. Raising someone else's child means placing responsibilities and worries on the dreamer's shoulders in the coming days. Carrying a talking baby means concluding a business agreement that will bring considerable profit.
  2. Dream Interpretation of Hasse . Carrying your beloved girl means unpleasant behavior on the part of your beloved. A married woman dreams that a stranger is holding her in his arms - foretells deceiving her partner and further worries in connection with this. Lifting heavy objects means great disappointment in loved ones.
  3. Dream Book of the Wanderer . Holding a boy in your arms speaks of the dreamer’s high physical strength and great will, thanks to which he does not bend under life’s difficulties. Carrying a crying girl and trying to calm her down means overcoming fears and failures. Raising your own daughter is a warning; the sleeper should reconsider his social circle in order to limit contacts with negative people.
  4. Vanga's dream book . Moving a cat from one place to another is a sign of trouble, the culprits of which will be envious people. They will spread rumors behind the dreamer's back.

Raising a dog means major family quarrels.

A smart woman knows how to skillfully demonstrate this.

Nowadays, men really like smart women. They are ready to listen to their thoughts.

Nobody says that in order to demonstrate to a young man the presence of his intelligence, he needs to carry a red diploma with him. You also can't be smart all the time.


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Representatives of the stronger sex will not like this. In this case, he may simply think that you are trying to pull the blanket over yourself.

A truly wise woman knows perfectly well how and when to demonstrate her intelligence. If you do everything correctly, the man will definitely appreciate it.

Interpretation of sleep from other sources

Numerous dream books help you find out the exact meaning of a dream depending on the details. Interpretation of such a vision:

  1. Modern dream book. Carrying your partner in your arms means a serious conversation with her parents.
  2. Esoteric interpreter. Carrying an ex-wife or a girl with whom you were previously in love means a desire to return the past. Raising your mother means a serious illness. Caring for her will fall on the shoulders of the dreamer. Carrying a vessel with water is an attempt to forget, to erase difficult memories from memory. A man lifts a girl - to a soon addition to the family. The sleeping woman is carried in his arms by a young guy - he will be given help in solving financial difficulties.
  3. Astrological dream book. Seeing an adult man being lifted up means a long-awaited journey. Another meaning is to provide financial guarantee for a friend. A similar situation dreams of people who need care.
  4. Value depending on details. Lifting a heavy child means achieving a goal through numerous obstacles. Picking up an unfamiliar baby means fiercely defending your own interests in the near future. Carrying a child means a desire to have offspring. A pregnant woman holding a baby means an easy, successful birth.
  5. Universal interpreter. Carrying a stack of books in your hands means an unexpected visit from guests.

A woman should be able to enjoy herself.

If a woman has put a lot of effort into her own development, then she should be able to enjoy herself.

If a lady knows exactly what she does well, then she should do it. You need to understand that confidence and self-confidence are two different things.

If you know that you have some achievements, then you don’t need to be shy about showing them. Representatives of the stronger sex do not like “shy” people.

It is very difficult to be frank with them. They are afraid of competitors and often experience fear of failure. Such ladies will never be interesting to men.

No need to shout about yourself. Just always feel confident, and the stronger sex will definitely appreciate it.

Interpretation of a dream according to Felomen

Phelomen relies on esoteric tendencies and psychoanalysis. The meaning of vision according to the dream book:

  1. Carrying someone in your arms means a serious illness in a loved one. The sleeper will be very worried, as a result of which he will plunge into a depressive state. It is recommended to surround the sick person with attention and care. You need to be there in difficult times.
  2. Holding your small child means causing a lot of trouble to relatives due to negative behavior. Someone else's - to voluntarily perform the duties of another person.
  3. Lifting a girl in your arms means perseverance and determination in achieving the task. Holding your beloved means harmony and understanding in your relationship with each other.
  4. Carrying a baby in your arms means looking for a way out of the current situation, which negatively affects the dreamer’s emotional state. You'll have to put in a lot of effort.
  5. Holding a girl is an unfavorable sign; serious obstacles will appear on the way to achieving your goals, which will be difficult to cope with. However, this is not a reason to despair, because the situation will improve soon.
  6. Carrying a brother means family quarrels and conflicts. Household chores will have a negative impact on the sleeping person’s work affairs.
  7. Picking up a woman in your arms denotes romantic feelings associated with the beginning of a new romance. The lady was old and unloved - to show interest in intrigue and gossip around one person from the dreamer’s immediate environment.
  8. Carrying a daughter in your arms means facing a series of difficulties associated with family relationships. Their joint decision will help them get to know their relatives better.
  9. Seeing another person holding a cat means helping one of your loved ones. Don't refuse support. The animal was covered in blood - a blood relative will need help. Carrying a dog means establishing friendly relations with a new acquaintance. In reality, the dreamer wants to show care, provide protection and help in any difficulties.
  10. A guy carries a sleeping woman in his arms - to help from others in solving difficult issues, a man - to secret love or a desire to diversify his sex life. A stranger lifts the dreamer up - to a love adventure; the current partner is a good sign; the woman can count on her support in real life. It is possible to receive a marriage proposal.

The interpretation of the dream varies depending on the chosen dream book. With its help, you can correctly find out the meaning of the dream in which you are carried in your arms.

The details you dreamed about and their understanding will help you choose the right option and take the necessary actions that will improve your life situation.

Where it occurs[edit]

Theater[edit]

  • In one eccentric production of “The Adventures of Balzaminov” there was a mocking gender inversion: Belotelova was a female jock (the actress too) and this is exactly how she carried the weakly fluttering (almost resigned) Balzaminov.

Literature[edit]

  • “Shot in the back” - the girl was short and not at all plump, but heavy-boned and, let’s say, not emaciated. Therefore, the men, when they tried to carry her like that, visibly tensed and were out of breath, and the girl despised them for this. And then a jock athlete appeared in her life, lifting her without any effort. This, of course, was not the only reason why she was fascinated by him - but it also played a role. It was this strong man who became her husband. True, then he fell into bad company and brought her a lot of grief.
  • “Gianea”: the main character carries a beautiful alien from the base station to the spaceship in his arms (without any ulterior motives - the alien’s spacesuit just doesn’t have oxygen cylinders, so the whole journey must be done as quickly as possible, and explaining to her that she needs to hurry is hindered by language barrier). And yes, this is exactly the wedding custom that aliens have.
  • Atlas Shrugged: At the beginning of the third book, Gault carries the wounded Dagny like this. A classic example of this trope as a hint at a future romantic relationship.
  • Wolfhound - when the Wolfhound “drove” Eurich a little (he had serious reasons for this), and he fell unconscious, he carries the scientist in his arms until he rests. But here’s an aversion - this pose doesn’t mean anything, it’s just that the Wolfhound had both shoulder bags on his back, and he couldn’t drag Evrich any other way. Believe me, he could (the hero happened to drag three at once), it’s just the best available option.
  • “Knights of the Blessed Virgin” - during the evacuation from Kotzebue, Creole picks up Vanessa in exactly this way. Their dialogue upon landing delivers. And yes, it all ended that way in the end.
  • Cinema[edit]

    • “And the dawns here are quiet...” Rostotsky - this is how Vaskov carried Zhenya out of the lake.
    • "Bodyguard" is a famous scene depicted on the poster.
    • “Pirates of the Caribbean: On Foreign Shores”: the young priest Philip carries the little mermaid like this because it hurts her to walk on her newly acquired legs. It looks very touching. Feelings did happen between them, yeah
    • In the first X-Files movie, Mulder carries Scully in his arms.
    • Star Wars: The Force Awakens: Kylo Ren, having knocked out Rey using the Force, carried her to the ship in exactly this way, although he could have given her to stormtroopers or thrown her on his shoulder. Naturally, this led to tons of shipping, and for once the shippers weren’t imagining things, but turned out to be right, judging by the sequel. At the same time, in Revenge of the Sith, Obi-Wan carries Padmé, who is seriously injured by “Force choke” and mentally shocked, in this manner. But his intentions are completely different: to quickly deliver the unfortunate woman to a medical facility, where she will receive help. Moreover, she herself is not able to walk, and besides, there is no other way to carry a heavily pregnant woman. This, of course, gave rise to humorous conversations about their possible romance, about Kenobi’s paternity in relation to one of the children (and the other, like, from Organa, hehe), and the corresponding humor in Gonfilm’s parody voice acting, but still the jokes are the same remained jokes and quickly faded away. There couldn't be any serious shipping here.
  • "Twilight": of course, Edward constantly carries Bella in his arms.
  • "The Fifth Element" - Korben carries Leela in his arms several times. Illuminated by the priest Vito Cornelius, whom Korben bursts into with Lilu in his arms: “Weddings are celebrated on the floor below.”
  • A. Teacher, “Prisoner”: this is how Rubakhin carries Jamal, having caught him after trying to escape. This gives viewers reason to assume same-sex attraction.
  • “The Man Who Fell to Earth” is a rare gender inversion: Mary-Lou carries the fainting main character in her arms. He is, of course, a fragile young man, but still not a bad feat for a girl of quite average build. And yes, they begin an affair.
  • Conan the Barbarian - In the finale, Conan carries the princess in his arms.
  • TV series[edit]

    • "The Borgias": Cesare carries the sleeping Lucrezia to bed in his arms.
    • “Spetsnaz in Russian 2” is for fun: Cross and Dynamite take turns dragging each other in order to stop and steal the ambulance.
    • “Lucifer” - in one of the episodes, Lucifer carried Chloe out of a burning building in his arms. And yes, this is a canon couple. And in another, Lucifer’s brother, the angel Amenadiel, had to transport her ex-husband Dan Espinosa in this way (without any other means of transport, but with a desperate need to get there). Against the background of Dan's warning that he is afraid of heights and is not responsible for physiological reactions.
  • “Teen Wolf” - often in this way, Cerberus Jordan Parrish pulls the banshee Lydia Martin out of yet another trouble.
  • Cartoons[edit]

    • Frozen: This is how Kristoff carries Anna, frozen by the ice curse, back to Arendelle. Of course, with a hint.
    • "Megamind": The minion thus brings Megamind into the captured city hall. Very dramatic. No, nothing like that, the Servant is basically a fish in an exoskeleton.
    • "Hotel Transylvania 3": this is how Dracula carries Erica out of the collapsing throne room into the dungeon of Atlantis. Typically, later, saving him from the Kraken, she performs the same maneuver.
    • “Ivan the Tsarevich and the Gray Wolf” from “The Mill”: In his dreams, Ivan carries Vasilisa out of the burning royal palace like this, but in reality it is she who carries him out of there. Then they switch roles - Scientist Cat noticed that something was wrong.

    Animated series[edit]

    • RWBY - they don’t carry, but in episode 3 of season 4 there are two characteristic moments when one character catches another in exactly this position - first San Blake, then San Blake. For the first time - with the appropriate phrase: “My hero!”
      Shippers are delighted.
    • “Voltron: Legendary Defender” from Netflix was not shown in the frame, but Keith said that he carried the wounded Lance in his arms (but Shiro carried him on his shoulder at the same time). “Clance” is one of the most popular pairings.
    • Alice knows what to do! - Lyokha dreams of caring for Alisa like this, a couple of times she ends up in his arms, but it all ends with screams and pokes. Arik went to great lengths trying to prove to everyone that he could lift Masha.
  • Spider-Man - in the title sequence of the 90s television series, Spider carries Harry Osborn out of an exploding building. Shown twice from different angles.
      In one of the adaptations, a suddenly wiser Flash Thompson holds Mary Jane in his arms, throws her up and catches her, while reciting poetry. Unfortunately, his intelligence was increased, not without side effects; as a result, the guy unexpectedly weakens and falls along with the girl, fortunately without hurting her.
  • Television[edit]

    • Fort Boyard - sometimes players carried coins out of the treasury this way: they took the girl in their arms, and poured the money onto her stomach.

    Comics[edit]

    • “Exlibrium” - during the mission in the “Witches Hammer”, in this way Matvey goes upstairs with Lilya to check something - he is the only one who can fly, and Lilya is for fire support; in this case it is more convenient to carry. In a word, a purely practical necessity. But there are shipper art with this scene. On a mission in "The Trouble Over Innsmouth", Lilya scans the area with color vision and cannot use normal vision, so someone must carry her. Sasha offers tsu-e-fa, but Matvey completely refuses - he, they say, has a hernia since last time. Then Inga pushes them aside and picks Lilya up in her arms. Sasha shouts after her that he was joking, but it’s too late. A little later, he throws Lilya over his shoulder - well, his other hand was occupied with the character.
    • Upon returning from the “Witches Hammer”, Zhenya carries Rita like this, without giving her to the shadows that transport the wounded.
  • "Doctor Who", "School of Death" - a levitating Clara carries the Doctor from the roof of a collapsing building in her arms.
  • Schlock Mercenary - after the liberation of Kevin-Prime and Teigon Sr. from the mafia, Dr. Bannigus carries Corporal Nicholson, who was so injured in battle. There is no romantic subtext at all - after all, the doctor has been married for a long time, and the corporal has recently found a girlfriend - but there is more than enough humorous content, considering that Bunny is an elegant, albeit tall, girl, and Nick is a two-hundred-kilogram big guy (though at that moment, with his legs torn off, he weighed slightly less).
  • Anime, manga and light novel[edit]

    • Parasite Eve DIVA: NY Shi no Utahime 2: Gray Davis lifts the main character to calm her down and return her to rest in the ward. Yes, yes, you thought correctly. But, alas...
    • Mahou Shoujo Madoka Magica: Kyoko carries Sayaka, of whom only a shell remains after turning into a witch.
      Later, Homura also carries the unconscious Madoka from the battlefield in her arms . Both times with a hint, it intersects with the neighboring trope.
    • Berserk - after the capture of the Doldrey fortress, Guts carries the wounded Casca from the fortress wall in his arms.
    • Gate: Jieitai Kanochi nite, Kaku Tatakaeri - Itami takes Rory out of the attack helicopter's kill zone this way. Unfortunately, he placed one of his hands slightly incorrectly... Rory clearly liked it, but she still gave him a punch in the eye. Because it doesn't matter.
    • Sailor Moon - in episode 24, this is how Jade carries the rescued Nara.
    • Psycho-Pass - In the last episode of the first season, Kogami carries Akane like this.
    • Goblin Slayer - in the additional chapter to the manga, Gobs carries the Farmer home like this after celebrating his victory in the tavern.

    Video games[edit]

    • Mass Effect 3: After the mission "Priority: Mars", in the case of a novel (and only in this!), a male Shepard will carry the wounded Ashley in his arms. If there is no romance, Shepard will carry Ashley, throwing her over his shoulders. No, the female Shepard will not carry Kaiden in her arms; in any case, he will suffer the fate of a sack of potatoes.
    • Dragon Age: Inquisition: If Dorian and Iron Bull had an affair in the main game, and Bull became a Tal-Vashoth, the epilogue of the Outlander DLC will show Bull carrying a wounded Dorian in his arms.
    • Tales from the Borderlands: Sasha catches Reese as he jumps and easily holds it there for several seconds. Moreover, the girl is smaller even than her sister.
    • StarCraft: in the finale of Wings of Liberty, Jim Raynor carries Sarochka this way, left without a Swarm, without a shell, without wings and without clothes. In Heart of the Swarm, she will return it all and abandon her beloved, but we know what the premise for the finale is... the assumption was justified: at the end of Legacy of the Void, Jim and the ascended Sarah found their personal paradise
    • Mafia: Polly carries the so wounded Sam to the truck.
    • Mount & Blade: if a female GG is stunned in battle, but she still has comrades, then they show a picture of a warrior carrying a woman in his arms. In the case of a man, he will be led and supported.
    • Assassin's Creed II - this is how Ezio carries the wounded thief Rosa. And yes, they will have a little romance in the future. In Brotherhood, he also carries the poisoned actor Pietro.
  • Another World - at the end, the wounded Lester is lifted into the arms of an aborigine, his fellow sufferer.
  • "Resident Evil 2" (2022 remake) - this is how Claire carries Sherry, infected with the G-virus.
      In the original, both playable characters did this.
  • The Legend of Heroes: Trails of Cold Steel - terrorists are carrying the kidnapped Princess Alfin and Eliza, and it is highlighted that it is difficult for them to run away from the heroes. When the villains cause a collapse and they need to escape, Laura orders Rin to take the sedated Alfin, while she carries Eliza.
      In the second part - Rin's epic race (under the power of an ogre)
      with the princess in his arms through Pantagruel.
  • There is also a very cute scene where Rin carries the dozing Fi to bed (put aside all vulgar thoughts - the girl simply fell asleep on the floor in the corridor out of habit, and the guy, fearing that she would catch a cold (her health is for three, but this is Rin), decided move her to bed, but didn’t want to wake her up. And in general, the scene rather demonstrates the relationship between parent and child: Rin is worried that Fi is too light for her age, and the girl who woke up for a couple of seconds says that for some reason she was dreaming about her childhood).
  • In the fourth part, Kurt carries Sally, exhausted from running, in his arms (it’s funny that Kurt’s mother ended up liking the girl, to the guy’s embarrassment), but Ash drags Jonah in a much less delicate way. Both people being moved are dissatisfied.
  • Super Mario - sometimes the Main Hero flashes with Princess Peach in his arms.
  • Sonic the Hedgehog - in the 2006 game, the hedgehog carried Alice while running.
  • Dragon's Dogma - usually the character drags whoever he can grab on his shoulder, but Duchess Elionor, when rescuing her, is taken into his arms and there is probably even a reason for this.
  • NieR: Automata - the degree of romance in the example is very much in question, but that’s how it is 2B carries out the wounded 9S
    from the Copied City.
      In turn, it is in this position that we see Eve and Adam, escaping from the complex in the desert.
  • A woman who has her own interests and develops them.

    You need to understand that you and your lover are far from two peas in a pod. For example, he may be great at golf, but you may not. But you are simply excellent lovers and friends. Every person should have their own hobbies.

    It is absolutely normal that your passions and those of your boyfriend may not coincide at all.

    It is not necessary for the stronger sex that his wife shares his hobby, but there must be respect for him. To win a man’s heart, you need to be interested in his successes and do not forget to praise your chosen one.

    But at the same time, you must have some kind of hobby of your own, which will become your little world for you.

    A man should think and wonder what you do so much that your eyes always light up from this activity.

    What does it mean to carry in your arms in a dream according to dream books

    If a person sleeping in a dream sees himself carrying someone in his arms, then first of all you need to pay attention to who exactly he is carrying. Most often, a burden is associated with future events and reflects the emotional state of the dreamer.

    The opinion of dream books about what dreams of carrying in one's arms may vary depending on who was being held - a loved one, a relative, a child, an animal.

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