It’s not uncommon for us to have dreams where the plot involves the death of one of the people close to us. A person close to us dies, showing an ominous action, carrying a meaning that dream books are designed to understand. The death of a husband is one of these cases where understanding will help resolve some issues and avoid mistakes in the future. This setting of the plot has an ambiguous meaning for understanding. The interpretation of such dreams can have a much deeper psychological meaning than explaining what happened with superficial patterns. Such dreams, in many cases, are not harbingers of terrifying events, but have a more modest everyday explanation. One interpretation says that seeing a dying husband for a divorced woman may mean anxiety about his fate. The woman could not completely forget him and thus realizes her concern for him. These are signs of serious distress, and it is better to try to restore the relationship or consult a psychologist to identify deeper personal problems. All of these, in general, are signs of a thoughtless decision to break off a relationship. This dream has no signs of anxiety.
Psychological side
Any manifestation of negative emotions in dreams is interpreted by psychologists as a negative phenomenon. Signs of impending anxiety, which is not yet so destructive, but is already manifesting itself in night dreams. Sometimes, this is a reflection of a real fear of losing a spouse. To lose love and support, to be left alone. This can be especially acute if you have children, then the fear for them outweighs the fear for yourself. The way out of this state can be hobbies or career advancement, actions and goals that relegate this fear to the background until it disappears completely.
I dreamed about the death of my ex-boyfriend
Dream books almost unanimously say that such a dream is a girl’s complete acceptance of her breakup with her ex-boyfriend. This is the so-called farewell to your past life. Sometimes such a dream is interpreted as a sign that the girl is expecting an early marriage (in rare cases, the birth of a child).
A nightmare calls the fair sex to action. If you approach the issue wisely, everything can be adjusted. No trials will become an obstacle to her happiness if the girl manages to do everything in her power.
Meaning
A dying husband is a symbol of changes in life that await the spouse in the future. Changes that call into question the uniformity of life. Habitual connections will be broken and they will be replaced by new relationships, which in their meaning will be as important as existing family ones.
The possibility of a husband’s mistress appearing, as a premonition of a family breakdown, or a woman’s appearance of a suitor. The family institution, in both cases, will be subject to collapse, accompanied by conflicts and quarrels. If you do not want to develop such a plot, especially if you have children, you can focus on building relationships, while eliminating all possible motives for disagreements, including imaginary and far-fetched ones.
Why do you dream about the death of a husband who is alive?
A woman’s experiences because of a dream in which she had to see her living husband dead are clearly justified if we consider many interpretations of dream books. As it turned out, one dreams of the death of a husband who is alive only when the husband gets bored with coexistence with his wife and decides to commit treason. The dream indicates that another one has appeared. And if the wife intends to keep her lover in order to preserve the family, then she is certainly obliged to make every effort at the moment.
Husband's funeral
The funeral of a spouse seen in a dream is also ambiguous. Some interpretations regard this as a favorable sign. A sign of impending festive fun. Wedding or anniversary. Time to have a good time. Other dream books tend to regard this as an unfavorable omen. Severance of spiritual unity with the spouse. Internal loneliness, ending in depression, loss of faith in one’s own strength.
The interpretation acquires a more specific meaning under the influence of situations or the emotional state that accompanies the funeral.
Joy
Emotional experiences in the presence of a fan. Fear of being exposed.
Gray, nondescript funeral
Mental tossing. Lack of priorities.
Grief, mourning
Excessive self-flagellation. Shift some of the family responsibilities to your husband.
Sadness, sadness
Love for my husband, fear of losing him.
Merry funeral
Good news, good news.
What moods prevailed?
The emotional background of a dream is a very significant detail. Here is how certain impressions in a dream are interpreted:
- completely natural mourning foreshadows an acute feeling of guilt and dissatisfaction with oneself;
- light sadness indicates psychological dependence on the deceased in a dream;
- unexpected fun at a wake promises joyful news in reality;
- widowhood represents women's fantasies of numerous affairs and suitors.
Recently deceased spouse
After the death of her husband, the widow sometimes has dreams in which she sees a second funeral. Reliving the unpleasant moments of seeing off over and over again. Such dreams often do not carry additional meaning, but are part of sadness and sadness for the deceased, the inability to let him go. Rejection of the fact that the late husband is no longer there. Only time will help you get rid of this condition. Only it can heal the wounds of loss. Dreams have a different meaning when the deceased spouse calls the widow to follow him. This may be a harbinger of a serious illness leading to death, or the presence of problems and failures in the future. You will especially need to be wary of accidents, as this can be an extremely negative sign.
When books are silent and dreams are not interpreted
If the spouse has a dangerous job associated with big business, constant danger to life, aggressiveness, frequent travel or swimming at sea, it is not surprising that his death was also seen in a dream.
In fact, such pictures have nothing to do with reality, with rare exceptions. Therefore, if you are worried, the dream book does not recommend interpreting dreams, as they will not come true. It’s a completely different matter when you have a dream that closely resembles reality. In this case, it is not always worth interpreting literally, since prophetic dreams come true literally within 2 days. More often, a frightening event occurs during sleep, and they find out about it in the morning or during the day. Therefore, not all dreams about the death of a husband can be interpreted and taken into account. Especially in times of danger and unrest. Try to understand how similar the event in which the husband died is to reality.
Mood after waking up
The nature of the dream, its meaning, can be judged after waking up. In this case, the assessment criterion will be the mood after sleep. Whether depressing or cheerful, it will tell you the main meaning of what you see.
Heavy thoughts indicate that the other half has secrets, which manifest themselves in a woman’s dreams. A cheerful mood is about joyful events in the future. Unexpected twists of fate that promise a lot of good things.
The dreamer's emotions
Although such a dream leaves an unpleasant aftertaste, during sleep the woman could experience completely different feelings.
Joy
Changes and joy in real life are expected soon.
Longing, sadness
Receiving sad news, unfavorable changes.
Swear until you cry
Receiving good news; joyful events.
Resentment towards spouse
You may make mistakes or oversights.
Happiness
Promises quick relief from the disease; a joyful time spent.
Indifference
The disappearance of goals in real life, it is necessary to create new guidelines.
Other interpretations
Different sources evaluate dreams with such a plot differently. In some, this is an omen of good changes, others interpret it not so optimistically, explaining it by the presence of adultery on both sides. Still others regard them as signs of impending problems that are not related to marital duty.
Inner restlessness
Dreams with a plot where the husband dies are a reflection of one’s own insecurity. A woman regards herself as a useless addition to her husband, without whom her life would collapse. Dreams of divorced women who worry about a breakup and believe that this was a stupid mistake on their part have this structure. In her dreams, he constantly comes and helps her. Gives advice, things, makes comments. At the same time, you cannot take anything from his hands, as in reality this will lead to meaningless actions, illness and empty troubles.
Kisses, caresses with the dead - to new pleasant acquaintances that develop into a serious relationship. Putting clothes on him is a possibility of getting sick. If you take pictures, then it means the illness of a person close to you.
Rivals
The imaginary death of a husband foreshadows the appearance of a rival on the love front. Destruction of family happiness due to adultery of one of the spouses. The likelihood of a relationship breakdown is very high. Seeing him in a coffin means a serious illness or accident. Pay attention to your husband's health
Omen of misfortune
Something very unpleasant will happen, breaking the way of life. Deception or betrayal with dire consequences for the dreamer. If your deceased husband addresses you, then you need to pay close attention to his words and try to remember them. Words can be the key to uncovering a deception or a warning not to do something specific. Pay attention to his gestures and facial expressions. The openness seen in the posture of the deceased will tell about the seriousness of his intentions. The more he likes himself, the more obvious the event.
Other meanings
There are other meanings that are not so specific and offer a wide range of interpretation.
- A new stage in a love relationship with my husband. Old games in a new way.
- Completing the work started. A quick outcome of events.
- Loss of internal energy. Loss of life guidelines.
List of used literature:
- Bolshakov I.V. Predestination and interpretation of dreams in Ancient Egypt (historical and philosophical aspect). St. Petersburg: Aletheya, 2007.
- Zhivitsa E. Yu. Russian tradition of dream interpretation // Knowledge. Understanding. Skill. — 2005
- Nechaenko D. A. History of literary dreams of the 19th-20th centuries. Dreaming as a form of culture. - M.: University Book, 2011.
Disasters, accidents, electricity
If in a dream your spouse died in a car accident, in a collision between a bus, a bicycle and a tram, then the dream book writes that various roads and trips need to be canceled in the near future so that no disaster or big trouble happens. There is still a small chance that something bad might happen on the road. However, a dream that is associated with the road most often promises your spouse changes in lifestyle and relationship with you.
In some cases, if a spouse died on a trip or road, but in fact he is alive, then such a dream symbolizes separation from him or his betrayal. Most likely, after the actual trip he will return a different person or you will find out about his extramarital affair. In some cases, such a dream means that the husband will change or the financial situation will soon worsen or, on the contrary, thanks to the new position, the spouse will be able to rise up. But in any case, it will no longer be as it was.
If in a dream someone told you that your husband had died, and then it turned out that he was actually alive, what is this dream for? Don't believe the rumors that are in the air. Most likely, someone will quarrel with you not in a dream, but in reality, having their own goal. Try not to pay attention to the slander against him, because someone is intentionally harming your life. It is possible that this is the mother, the sister of the spouse or a woman who has designs on him.
Why did you dream that your husband died from electricity, especially in his own home? The dream book writes that such a dream warns that he may grow cold and leave home due to constant scandals and quarrels. Do not escalate the situation, as the family may collapse. If you dreamed that your spouse died from a garland or light bulb, as well as various fires and explosions, try not to conflict with him if you don’t want him to leave.
Electricity in a dream outside the house can dream of fatal circumstances and conflicts, a fatal coincidence of circumstances.
The dream book writes that a dream that shows you that your spouse died outside the house from a fire, explosion or volcanic eruption, or lightning, means trouble, his unexpected new love or the desire to leave home for the sake of freedom and a career. So you should accept your husband’s choice or let him go, so as not to disrupt the relationship in the future.
