- October 20, 2018
- People
- Maria Matselevich
Family life implies that two people love each other and support each other in any situation. It also means that they must be faithful to each other. But it often happens that one of the spouses begins to cheat or even leaves the family after falling in love with another person. In the old days, such a situation could have been a disaster for a woman, but now everything is much simpler, but still a bleak event.
It’s unpleasant to see such a picture in the plot of night dreams, so ladies often wonder why her husband dreams of another woman. Dream books can help you decipher such a dream. But in order to accurately unravel the symbols of a dream and understand what the subconscious or higher powers are hinting at, it is worth remembering all the details of the dream and be sure to take them into account when searching for an interpretation.
Miller's Dream Book
The famous psychoanalyst believes that such dreams indicate problems in real life and reflect the future if the situation is not changed. Perhaps the dreamer is doing something wrong in real life, for example, she doesn’t devote enough time to her spouse or, on the contrary, is too intrusive. Miller believed that the subconscious feels threatened and thus tries to warn a person about the consequences of his current actions.
But, if in reality everything is not all right with you either, and you felt that there was a wall between you, then the interpretation of what your husband dreams of with another woman will be more positive. This is a dream that foreshadows the renewal of feelings in a couple. But when, according to the plot, the husband directly speaks about his love for another and leaves, then this is very bad. The dream book advises you to take a closer look at the current situation and prevent trouble and destruction of the family.
Transcripts by Loff and Miller
The general meaning in Loff's dream book is negative. The interpreter believes that the former lover is dreaming of trouble. However, the interpretation may change depending on what the young person did. If he was with a new girl, but at the same time confessed his love to the dreamer, fate will present an unexpected gift, but the sleeping woman will not be happy with him.
When a lady dreams of her ex proposing to another , in reality she will meet interesting people. Another meaning is reconciliation with a relative. If the man with whom the breakup occurred died in a dream, and his new bride was present at the funeral, in reality the dreamer will get married or become pregnant. Sleep can also predict an improvement in your financial situation. Most likely events:
- receiving an inheritance;
- a valuable gift from parents;
- transfer to a higher paying position;
- successful business trip;
- concluding a profitable deal;
- large purchase;
- selling real estate at a good price.
After such a dream, you should tune in for the best. Since Loff interprets the plot in two ways, there is no need to concentrate on the negative meaning.
Miller's dream book, which is considered one of the most authoritative, interprets a dream about an ex-fiancé as a harbinger of change. A past love that appears in a dream can foreshadow conflicts, pleasant surprises, or a meeting with a person for whom the dreamer once had warm feelings, and this will not necessarily be the hero of the dream.
You need to pay attention to the behavior of a young man in his dreams . If he quarreled with his lady love, in reality the sleeping woman will suffer from unfair accusations from her husband or parents. Kissing an ex - a woman will feel helpless when a series of troubles begin, and this will happen quite soon.
The plot, where the ex leaves another girl to return to the dreamer, personifies unfulfilled hopes. If in reality the sleeping woman wants to start a complex task, it is better to wait: now is not the most suitable period to take on complex tasks. Everything will literally fall out of your hands - a dream about reconciliation with an ex warns about this.
“Dream Book from A to Z” by Melnikov
According to this interpreter, dreams in which your husband cheats on you indicate your biased attitude towards him in the real world. Most likely, you begin to express your dissatisfaction with the incorrectness of his actions even before he has time to do something wrong and make a mistake.
If in a dream the husband simply leaves the family for a while and there is no hint that the reason for this is another woman, then in reality expect discord in the relationship. But don’t worry, this is a temporary phenomenon and everything will get better soon.
How to get rid of obsessive stories
Unpleasant images are an important part of your inner world. Only you can correct the situation yourself. To prevent the beloved one left in the past from appearing at night, follow a simple technique:
- Take his photo for better visualization.
- Imagine that your foreheads (where the third eye is) are connected with a thick rope.
- Mentally break this rope: with your hands, with a saw, with an axe. It all depends on the imagination. At least blow it up with an atomic bomb.
- Do this several times.
Attention: complete cleansing is symbolized by the image of a now non-native character waving to you from afar. It may appear during imaging or at night.
Dream Interpretation of Shereminskaya
This is how this interpreter answers the question of why a husband dreams about another woman. He believes that in the dreamer’s real life, not everything is going well, and this is noticed not only by the spouses themselves, but also by the society that surrounds them. But a quarrel over betrayal, dreamed of in a night plot, is a positive symbol, meaning a revival of feelings in a couple. Although, the meaning of this dream may change if the husband’s mistress was present during the scandal. The dream book interprets this vision as a harbinger of a very serious discord in the family. It is possible that everything could end in divorce proceedings.
Psychological aspect of the image of the ex
Experts rarely solve night scenarios. A simple comparison does not reflect the completeness of the problem. Pictures about the past are a sign of existing internal experiences. They are hidden from consciousness, but influence the dreamer’s worldview. I couldn't cope with the breakup.
The main painful question is in the area of the correctness of the decision made. Was the breakup too hasty? Were the partners based on erroneous ideas about each other? Logic is ready to answer, to sort everything out. But the soul cannot be reconciled.
The former is dreaming for the following reasons:
- Unfinished relationships. The papers have been completed. There are stamps in passports. People live in different apartments or cities. But the complaints remained. Unspoken words stir the heart. The mental field is filled with bitter feelings.
- Psychological anchor. This is what experts call the feeling associated with another person. An innocent stimulus causes the memory to bring up a half-forgotten image. An anchor can be: the smell of cologne, the vague silhouette of a passerby, music, a phrase heard accidentally. The main thing is that the element symbolizes a completed union.
- Regret about the breakup. There is no need to discuss this reason. Look into your soul, is there a desire to reunite?
Hint: you need to deal with problems yourself or with the help of a specialist. You can't leave them. They ruin life. Now there are many methods for identifying subconscious grievances and claims. The simplest one: forgiveness. You don't have to talk to the offender. Admit the negativity to yourself. List all the grievances against the person who abandoned you. And then forgive yourself and him.
Who exactly did the husband decide to go to?
Dream books pay a lot of attention to such details as the personality of the husband’s mistress in a dream. The interpretation of this plot of night dreams depends on who was the reason for his departure. So, a dream in which your husband was taken away from you by your friend suggests that in reality you will face serious troubles that will happen due to the fault of your mutual acquaintances with your spouse.
There is another interpretation of why your husband dreams of another woman, namely your friend. Interpreters decipher this as a sign that in reality you tell other people a lot of personal details. The dream book advises not to make the details of your personal life public and remember that even the closest people can use this against you, sometimes not even on purpose.
If in real life your husband has a woman on his side, and it was to her that he decided to go to their family in a night vision, it means that big changes are coming soon.
Moreover, they can be both positive and negative, but in any case something will change. As the dream book says, a husband leaves for an employee in a dream - this means that in reality he may have problems at work. But the stranger in your night dreams, who seduced your loved one, warns that in reality, unfamiliar people will plot against you.
Decoding by situation
Below are interpretations of 101 popular dream books. The analysis is based on the storyline:
- Breaking up - a change in life priorities will push you in a different direction, closer to well-being.
- Return is a period filled with sad memories. Longing huddles in your heart.
- Kissing means stiffness. Leave the past behind, relax, turn to happiness.
- Sex without satisfaction - curb your temper. Your actions and words irritate others.
- To hug is to be sad.
- Beating, scolding - grievances do not give rest.
- Seeing off, saying goodbye to the deceased - meeting a worthy guy. Don't lose your happiness.
- Seeing from afar means difficulties in the present. Memories close my eyes. They don't allow you to open up to new feelings.
- If you called , be reasonable. You shy away from one side to the other. First decide what to do, then act.
- He asked me to call because he was unsure of his feminine charms. Apparently, the divorce had a negative impact on his character.
- I’ve been inundated with letters and texts —interesting events lie ahead. One note is a passing fancy. A lot of messages on WhatsApp - a quick, bright, stunning adventure.
Carefully remember the contents of the letters:
- threats - stress;
- complaints - problems;
- jealous phrases - dissatisfaction with oneself;
- asking to come back is freedom.
Murder
Nightmares convey realities with hypertrophied, exaggerated pictures. An attempt to kill an ex-boyfriend is an indicator of recovery. Negative emotions burdened the aura for a long time. Through a nightmare, the soul is freed from this overwhelming burden.
If you tried to stab or shoot, but didn’t see any blood, it means your emotions have completely extinguished. The grievances dissolved, the anger subsided, the indignation melted. You are ready for the next victories, the creation of a real harmonious space of love.
If you dream regularly
Serial plots are always prophetic. The subconscious is ringing all the bells. You have accumulated a lot of debts and unfinished business. It's time to figure it out, complete the important ones, discard the small ones.
Warning: Failure to follow prompts will lead to serious problems in the future.
Decoding by type of man
The image of the guy is sometimes crucial for the correct interpretation. Options:
- Drunk - got into a series of difficulties, needs support.
- Beaten, sick - incurs financial losses.
- Sad - it's time to forget this person. He will never return.
- Crying - ready to support the dreamer in any situation.
- Naked - the dreamer is in danger. The enemy hid in the immediate circle.
The words of the deceased should be remembered. He advises from another world. If he showed a house, it means that his soul has already incarnated on earth.
People and circumstances related to your ex
The variety of plots makes it necessary to understand in detail. Memorable nuances indicate:
- To visit his father's house is to never set foot there again.
- Mother-in-law - advice to keep secrets from strangers. There is an ill-wisher nearby, sniffing out “fried” information.
- Appeared with someone else - fate separated you forever.
- If you got married or saw your current wife, you still have hope for a reunion. This is a projection of existing jealousy.
A strange scene about an ex surrounded by many lovers speaks of heartache. The separation plunged the sleeping woman into uncertainty and undermined her self-esteem. Shake yourself up, realize your own worth. Otherwise, current partnerships will suffer.
A retiree with a new passion is a sign of an unpleasant meeting.
What does he intend to return to?
Going through a divorce is quite difficult psychologically. Memories haunt the soul for a long time and disturb me at night.
True signs:
- If you asked to come back, you would get bored. The heart is still warm, the ex is a little worried.
- Marry him again - you will get into trouble. It will not be possible to overcome it quickly.
- If you agreed to have sex, you yearn for the time when you were completely protected.
Hint: an alarming symptom. It is necessary to adjust the worldview. The soul is restless, which prevents it from realizing itself and developing.
Cry in my sleep
The departure of a spouse is not a very positive event and many girls cannot cope with this grief without tears. Dream books pay special attention to this fact. So, for example, a hysteria that happened in a dream on the occasion of the husband’s departure is deciphered as a manifestation in reality of a subconscious fear of change. In other words, the dreamer does not want to change her usual way of life, and even the most minor changes in the established rhythm of life frighten her.
But the dream in which the husband was packing his things and trying to demonstratively leave, and you were crying and persuading him to stay, in fact, has a positive decoding. It promises in the near future mutual understanding between lovers and harmony in relationships. Also considered a good dream is one in which you parted with a big scandal. Dream books believe that in this way you have gotten rid of all negative emotions and in real life everything will be peaceful and calm.
Options for sleeping with a sick husband
Ex-husband got sick
Unfortunately, not all marriages are successful. If your ex-spouse came to you in a dream and turned out to be very ill, then in reality he may need your help. If you are in a good relationship, you can directly ask if he needs support at the moment - most likely, he will not answer with a refusal, because now he really needs you.
Late spouse is ill
Did your long-dead spouse come to you sick in a dream? It is strongly recommended to visit a doctor yourself and take care of the health of your household. Also, in order to minimize risks, you should visit his grave, and this must be done as soon as possible, do not delay.
Return of the spouse
If in a dream you had to see your husband with another woman and how you break up with him, and then according to the plot he decides to return and asks for your forgiveness, then in reality, most likely, you can have a very big scandal, and he will really leave you .
Dream Interpretations believe that leaving for another spouse, who has already died in reality, warns the sleeping woman that she is doing some wrong things. It is believed that such a dream may mean that the spirit of the deceased husband is dissatisfied with his wife and thus he is trying to reason with her and prevent her from making even more mistakes.
Harbingers
Even despite a powerful scientific breakthrough in all areas, the most innovative equipment, dreams still remain a rather mysterious and not fully understood phenomenon for us.
With the help of dreams, our subconscious is able to send us some signs, hints and signals, but we just have to understand them correctly and take note. As a rule, dreams are not always pleasant, light, with the right picture, more often they are absolutely chaotic in nature, they can be completely unrelated plots.
If in the morning a woman remembers that she saw her ex-husband in a dream at night. It is believed that her husband simply missed her very much and wants to return. However, there is no need to rush to conclusions. To properly analyze your dream, it is much better to first remember the events that happened the day before. Perhaps her new man offended her in some way. Or she talked to her friends about her personal life. Or she had some worries about this.
You should also take into account the day of the week and lunar day. As a rule, dreams from Thursday to Friday can come true. Sunday dreams, on the contrary, do not carry any prophecy at all. Dreams from Monday to Tuesday indicate what we are missing. On our emotional experiences, i.e. maybe she really misses her ex-husband. She misses some of the emotions that were associated with him.
Psychologists' opinion
If you have a dream in which a strange woman is present with your spouse very often, then psychologists believe that this is a sign of brewing discord in the family. Most likely, you have stopped discussing your fears and grievances with each other, sharing desires and ideas. Psychologists advise talking to your significant other after such a nightly incident, this way you will be able to avoid serious disagreements in the family.
There is also another interpretation of the appearance of the husband’s mistress in a dream. Some psychologists attribute this phenomenon to mistrust on the part of the woman. In real life, she gives in too much to her doubts and fears and constantly tries to check whether her husband is faithful to her. Such dreams are not necessarily prophetic, and he may not have any connections on the side, but with her increased attention the dreamer brings him closer to moving away or finally doing what he is constantly groundlessly suspected of.
Analysis according to the lunar dream book
The third phase of the lunar cycle has the highest chance of this dream coming true. The chance is also very high during the full moon, and then it gets lower. The chance of it coming true if the ex-boyfriend cries in all other phases is very small. It would also be prudent to refrain from making hasty decisions these days.
The publication of the lunar dream book is truly unique. It reflects the time at which dreams have a high chance of coming true. A huge step towards its creation was the study of the influence of the lunar cycle and phases on human dreams. And to work with it correctly, you also need to use the lunar calendar.
Dream Interpretation of Loffa - ex-husband
A dream in which your ex-husband married another woman symbolizes quick forgiveness. You will be able to forgive that person against whom you had a grudge for a very long period of time. If you dreamed that your ex married you again, such a dream promises you big troubles.
A dream in which he treats you with incredible tenderness and love is a sign of unforeseen surprises that may or may not be very pleasant. The death of your ex-spouse is a dream of family well-being, namely your speedy marriage and the birth of a baby.
Why does an ex-man dream according to the esoteric dream book?
Having a sexual relationship with your ex-spouse and at the same time experiencing passionate feelings for him symbolizes your long-standing consequences and insoluble problems. Kissing him is a big surprise.
Making love means aggravating an old conflict. Separate - for a meeting that could end in failure. Swearing and quarreling with your ex-spouse means happy changes in your life.
There will be troubles with children, showdowns at work
Often, a dream about a partner with whom you have already broken up indicates that the sleeping woman’s feelings for him have not yet faded away. But seeing a man angry in a dream is an unfavorable omen. According to the dream book, this is a warning about the possibility of making a serious mistake.
For a woman, an angry ex-husband who insults her is a harbinger of worries about children, troubles and dealing with their troubles.
Hearing offensive words addressed to you from your former husband in a dream also means: you will have a not very pleasant conversation with your boss at work. You will not only worry about your career, but also whether you will stay in this job.
Return or move on?
If in a dream you happen to make love with a former loved one, after breaking up with him in reality, you should think about your plans and priorities for the future. The Dream Book of Lovers advises you to think about whether you see this person near you in your life plans or just want to amuse your wounded pride?
For recently divorced young ladies, a dream about an episode indicates a chance to change something in their lives, to get rid of the shackles that were holding the dreamer back.
What does a dream mean where you had to kiss your ex-husband?
Kissing your ex-husband in a dream means a lucrative offer. It will be brought by a potential employer, a trusted colleague or a promising business partner, whose words you will treat with distrust. Risk-taking and determination will help you make the right decision, which will bring you success and financial prosperity.
A plot where you had to kiss your ex-husband on the lips promises longing for the past. Against the backdrop of loneliness, a breakup with your current partner, or dissatisfaction with your family life, you will want to return to your past relationship. If you rush to conclusions, you will doom yourself to mental suffering.
