Many girls engage in fortune telling, and they are interested in what needs to be said before going to bed so that the one who loves will appear in a dream. There are a lot of practices, and some of them are the most correct, so it’s worth understanding this. It happens that a girl realizes that a guy likes her, but he has not yet confessed his feelings to her, and she wants to make sure of this, then she resorts to fortune telling.
And it happens that a girl dreams of meeting her betrothed, and she wants to make him dream of her. So what needs to be done for this? Usually they do fortune telling on the biggest Christian holidays, and there are just three Saviors ahead - Honey, Apple and Nut, the best time to find out your destiny, as reported by rsute.ru.
The best ways to find out who loves you in a dream
In order to find out your future fate, you can use the advice of our ancestors. It is believed that it is better to carry out rituals for a future lover on December 13, as well as on Christmas night - Yuletide fortune-telling.
On December 12, 12 friends are given sheets of paper on which they write one male name each. After this, the paper is folded so that it is impossible to see what is written. All notes should be collected together, adding one blank one to them. There will be 13 in total - they are placed under the pillow. In a dream, the girl will see the image of her betrothed. And she can find out his name by taking out one of the notes. If an empty sheet falls out, then your loved one will not meet soon.
A proven fortune telling for Christmas is the ritual with salty cookies. To do this, you need to bake two salty cookies the day before. Eat one of them before going to bed, and put the second under the pillow with the words: “My betrothed, bring me some water to drink.” The person you dreamed about will be your lover.
Another ritual that will require a new wooden comb, because wood is considered a symbol of love affection. Before going to bed, you should comb your hair, and put the comb under the pillow with the words: “Betrothed, my mummer, come comb my braid.” After this, the girl in her dream will definitely see the guy destined for her.
General rules
All rituals and ceremonies should be carried out with great care. After all, most of them can cause real harm.
Constant fortune telling can cause dependence on the person on whom the ritual is directed. Thus, false attachment is born. A girl can fall in love with an image that appears in a dream and then torment herself with it for many years.
In order not to become dependent on dreams, you need to carefully analyze them. There are certain days set aside for rituals that should be followed:
- major church holidays: Epiphany, Easter, Intercession of the Blessed Virgin Mary, Christmas;
- New Year holidays;
- from Thursday to Friday of any week;
- in a new place where you have not slept before, regardless of the date;
- on the full moon;
- to the growing moon.
It should be remembered that it is undesirable to guess on the new moon, since signs from above during this period may arrive in a distorted form. To see your chosen one, you need to fall asleep alone in the room. After saying the ritual words before going to bed, do not communicate with anyone and think about extraneous matters. Moreover, you cannot talk about your intentions the day before.
To make the prophecy more accurate, before going to bed, you should remake the sheet with the back side up and move the pillow to the opposite side. And put on your nightgown inside out.
Ritual with water
To find out whether your cherished wish will come true, you can use “Charged Water”. Moreover, anyone can perform this ritual. To do this, you just need to fill a glass with water and whisper your desire into it.
Afterwards, you should place a glass near your bed and drink water in small sips at night. Having drunk everything, you can safely expect your betrothed in a dream.
If you sleep in someone else's house
If you have the opportunity to sleep in someone else’s house, then before going to bed you need to say: “I’m sleeping in a new place, the bridegroom is dreaming about the bride.” Then you can also see your chosen one in a dream.
To dream about a loved one
When you love a person, you want to be with him constantly, including in your dreams. There has long been a belief: if the chosen one comes in a dream, it means that the feelings are strong and strong. However, what can you do to make your loved one dream, and in a good, bright dream? Many people believe that it is enough to constantly think about it, and then the desired image will certainly appear. But this does not always work, and in pursuit of what they want, people have invented different methods based on magical and mystical ideas. They don’t give a 100% guarantee, but if you don’t want to rely only on your own subconscious, you can try some rituals.
How to see a person who is in love with you in a dream by day of the week
Each day of the week has its own meaning. Therefore, it is important to know what dreams mean for a girl in love on a certain day.
From Tuesday to Wednesday
If you had a dream from Tuesday to Wednesday, then there is a chance that it will come true, but not soon. Therefore, you should not be discouraged, but you need to be patient and wait for further developments.
From Wednesday to Thursday
Dreams that occurred from Wednesday to Thursday do not concern personal life. However, such dreams should not be neglected in everyday life, as they can contain important information for the fortuneteller.
From Thursday to Friday
A loving person can be seen in a dream from Thursday to Friday, saying three times before falling asleep: “Friday, Friday, whoever loves will appear in a dream.”
It is believed that on this night girls will definitely dream of images of the men they are destined to meet in life.
This could be someone close to you or a complete stranger. The main thing is to get a good look at your betrothed in a dream.
From Friday to Saturday
Dreams from Friday to Saturday speak of the jealousy of a lover. Therefore, you should not neglect the warnings seen this night.
From Saturday to Sunday
Girls with long hair can perform a ritual with a comb in order to see their chosen one on the night from Saturday to Sunday. Before going to bed, you need to comb your hair 50 times on each side of your head and put the comb under the pillow, saying: “My fate is distant, you see, I’m lying alone. Come, stay, comb my braids.” As a rule, such dreams come true quickly.
From Sunday to Monday
To dream about the future groom, on the night from Sunday to Monday you need to place a pine twig under the pillow and say: “I fall asleep on Monday - there is a spruce forest under my head. Whoever dreams about me flies into my dreams.” According to popular beliefs, the image of the betrothed will definitely appear that night in a dream.
From Monday to Tuesday
A dream seen from Monday to Tuesday indicates that someone treats you with respect. In order to see the image of your lover, before going to bed you need to write the guy’s name on a piece of paper, put the paper on a small mirror, which should be placed under the pillow. Before going to bed, say the words: “From Monday to Tuesday, I look at the windowsill; whoever dreams about me, let him dream about me.”
What else can a prophetic dream tell you about marriage?
It happens that a girl, making a wish about her boyfriend, sees a dream in which the face of her loved one is not present or something happens that is not related to your question.
For example, you find yourself in an unfamiliar city, see a person's name written on glass, or something else. Do not rush to get upset - it is possible that higher powers are showing exactly how and where your acquaintance will happen or what will affect your marriage.
It happens that you see a piece of the future that will significantly affect your personal life. For example, you will meet your betrothed on the road, in another city or somewhere else. Or your life together will involve constant travel and changing your place of residence.
It happens that in a dream you see a declaration of love, sex scenes or something else. The dream book writes that all visions that seem to you to be unrelated to marriage must be interpreted. They provide important information about your personal life.
How can you get your loved one, whom you don’t know yet, to show their face? You should not do this on purpose, since information obtained unnaturally may point to your friend or even a celebrity. You shouldn't believe such pictures.
It is better to wait for the prophetic dream to appear in your life. Modern books indicate that very soon you will see your boyfriend if, after making a wish on him, you switch to your usual activities for a while.
Then your loved one will appear to you during your night's rest.
Reviews
There are many true and incredible stories about fortune telling at Christmas and Christmas time. Many have tried to tell fortunes about their betrothed at least once in their lives, as teenagers. Whether the prediction will come true or not depends on many aspects: the correctness of the ritual, faith in it, and the mood of the fortuneteller. One way or another, Christmas fortune telling is part of our culture; they will help you get in touch with traditions and temporarily plunge into a fairy tale. Well, you can leave your reviews on fortune telling in the comments below - let’s check which is the most reliable.
Fortune telling with a comb
This fortune telling was used to find out the hair color of the future spouse. A comb or comb was hung in a barn overnight, and in the morning hair was found on it. According to legend, it is the bride or groom who comes to comb their hair at night.
In modern conditions, when most people live in apartments, the comb is hung in the hallway or in the bathroom. The most important thing is that no one else enters this room until the morning.
For guys
Fortune telling for unmarried guys is not much different from similar rituals for girls. Any ritual can also be used for fortune telling for your betrothed.
A popular method of fortune telling is with paper: you need to write women's names on pieces of paper, put them under the pillow , and in the morning pull one out at random, and that will be the name of your future wife.
How it works: psychological explanation
If you listen to the advice of the people and do everything to make your loved one appear in your dreams, the ritual can actually work. Having fallen asleep, the girl will see her lover, and when she wakes up, she will believe in the magical power of the action performed the day before. But! Psychologists explain this simply: self-installation. Carrying out a certain ritual aimed at making a loved one dream in a dream, a woman:
As a result, the wish comes true: in a night dream, the girl’s beloved man appears. But this is not because a certain ritual was performed, but because her psyche was initially attuned to the corresponding visions.
But it doesn’t matter how it works if the method really helps you see your lover in a dream? Therefore, we offer several very simple rituals that will help you achieve your goal.
By type of fortune telling
A huge number of recipes for fortune telling for a betrothed have reached modern times, which are still relevant today and can be recreated at home. There are rituals that require careful preparation and adherence to rules, and there are also very simple ways to look into the future and see your betrothed there.
There are general rules for all fortune telling that should not be neglected.
- There should be no strangers in the room, or better yet in the house at all. Fortune telling does not tolerate fuss, skeptics and noise.
- TV, telephone and other sound sources should be turned off, as they can disturb the fortuneteller at the most inopportune moment.
- Fortune telling is taken seriously and with respect. This is a full-fledged ritual, where otherworldly forces and spirits come to the call. It is unacceptable to laugh, be distracted, or otherwise show disdain for the ritual. The consequences of such actions can be very dire. Our ancestors believed that evil spirits like to play tricks on fortune-telling mortals, and maybe even teach them a cruel lesson.
- Usually, it is customary to tell fortunes at night or at dawn , unless the instructions for the ritual indicate a different time.
- During fortune telling, it is necessary to remove jewelry, a cross, and any other amulets and amulets. All this creates an additional background and interferes with obtaining information.
- The fortuneteller should not cross his arms and legs during the ritual; a closed position also blocks energy and interferes with reading the images sent.
Telepathic communication
It is believed that if you think about someone, the person may appear in your dreams. It's worth taking advantage of. Agree to think about each other before going to bed. This will strengthen the telepathic connection and you will tune in to the meeting in your dreams. Traditional interpreters suggest paying more attention to specifics. Specify in detail:
- meeting point;
- weather;
- what will you wear;
- etc.
This will increase the likelihood of meeting in a dream, and the subconscious will do the rest. When going to bed, try to imagine the meeting, remembering the agreed upon moments and feeling the emotions.
Meditative practices
Meditation helps not only to clear the mind and concentrate thoughts on the desired object, but also to make dreams lucid, which will make it possible to manage them and achieve the desired goal. Sit more comfortably, try to stop your consciousness and internal dialogue, and instead focus on your breathing. Watch your inhalations and exhalations. When your breathing slows down, focus on the feeling of successfully achieving your goal, that the desired dream has already occurred.
Adviсe:
- Try not to create pictures or images during meditation.
- Don't blame yourself if your consciousness constantly gets out of your control. Each time, try to bring it back to breathing.
Hold in this state for 20 inhale-exhale cycles. Try to concentrate only on sensations - let your consciousness remain clear.
On holidays
Traditionally, unmarried girls in villages told fortunes about their betrothed on special days that were considered the most favorable for this. Usually people used to tell fortunes on major holidays, such as Christmas. For each holiday, there are various traditions and rituals that will help predict success in relationships and an early wedding for both girls and guys.
On Christmas
On the night of January 6-7, it is customary to tell fortunes about the betrothed. This is a special day - Christmas Eve, namely the night before the big holiday of Christmas. Many people remember pictures from classical literature and films, where girls tell fortunes on this particular night. There is some truth in fictional stories; this holiday has long been famous for the fact that various miracles occur during it.
According to folk legends, on the night before Christmas, all prohibitions are lifted and anything becomes possible. All spirits, both good and evil, go to Earth and can contact people.
On Christmas Eve, deceased relatives often appear in a dream to visit their family, convey something, give parting words or warn.
Fortune telling on Christmas Eve requires preparation. The hair is untied, all hairpins are removed, jewelry and amulets are removed, and knots on clothes are undone. All rings, earrings and knots are, in one way or another, a protection that can close the energy on itself and not allow anything from the outside to pass through.
It is important to clearly formulate the question of what exactly the fortuneteller wants to know from higher powers: the betrothed’s appearance, name, where the meeting will take place, when, etc.
Fortune telling at Christmas is allowed even by the Orthodox Church, which is usually intolerant of various types of fortune telling. It is believed that during the period from Christmas to Epiphany, evil spirits have no place on earth, they weaken, so fortune telling ceases to be an objectionable activity, but becomes simply entertainment.
On Christmastide
Christmastide is the period from January 8 to January 18, namely the days from Christmas to Epiphany. For a long time in Rus', this time period has been considered a time of miracles, carols, and, of course, fortune telling. The most favorable day is Vasiliev's evening on January 13, as well as the night before Epiphany.
There are many traditions and rules associated with Christmastide that have survived to this day. For example, our ancestors did not sweep dirty linen from the hut during the period from Christmas to Epiphany, but collected it in a pile and then burned it in the yard. In this way it was believed that all negativity, illnesses, and problems were swept out of the house.
Particular attention was paid to dreams on holy days. People believed that the line between the material and the spiritual was slightly opened for the entire duration of the celebration, various miracles and revelations were possible, and all dreams became prophetic.
During the Christmas season, in order to receive an answer from higher powers to a question of interest, it is often enough to simply voice it before going to bed. However, there are many rituals that allow you to get detailed and most accurate answers.
Several simple ways
Realizing that she wants to see her beloved in a dream, the girl begins to look for ways to achieve this. Surprisingly, people have several options, and all of them are not at all complicated. In addition, psychological science also gives practical advice, usually leading to the desired result.
Mutual communication
It is believed that if one person thinks about another, he will certainly appear in his dreams. Agree in advance with your loved one so that when he falls asleep, he imagines only you, sending strong mental signals. It’s great if you can go to bed at the same time, this will only strengthen the telepathic connection, thereby forming the necessary dreams. Many interpreters advise: try to agree on the place of the sleepy meeting. More specifics also helps create the desired plot. And to make the dream positive, kind and good, before you fall asleep, forget about all the quarrels and best of all imagine erotic dates with your loved one.
Conspiracy with water
The ritual is based on an important folk belief: ordinary clean water, never boiled, stores any information and acts as its conductor. Therefore, before going to bed, pour a full glass of life-giving liquid and whisper over it, asking for the image of your loved one to appear in a dream. Put all your energy into the message, act sincerely. So say: “I want to see my beloved in pleasant, tender dreams.”
After speaking the water, take a small sip and place the rest at the head of your bed. When waking up at night, drink a little liquid charged with your cherished desire.
