Why do you dream of a quarrel with your loved one?
Dream Interpretation Quarrel with a loved one
The main features of communication in a dream are practically no different from those in reality. In night dreams we also smile, love someone or quarrel. A strong quarrel in a dream with your other half can seriously frighten you, and in the morning you have to frantically search and type “dream book quarrel with your loved one” into an online search engine.
If you dreamed of a quarrel with your sweetheart, you should not panic and wait for the collapse of the relationship. Many interpreters say that this is a reverse dream, which means that what happened at night will only come true in the exact opposite way. Scandals between you will subside and misunderstandings will disappear.
Understanding why you dream about a quarrel with a loved one is not always easy. Because it is precisely this situation that causes disagreement even among proven dream books. Some are sure that this is a changeover dream, while others are sure that this is one of those few moments that can come true in life. To figure out which interpretation is most suitable for the dreamer’s case, it is worth recalling the night vision in detail.
Who had the dream
To a woman
If a girl in a dream screamed and cursed with an unfamiliar woman, the dream book of the sorceress Medea warns that a fulfilled dream can lead to disappointment.
To a man
According to the Ukrainian dream book, if a man in a dream quarreled with a woman whom he knows in real life, in reality chronic diseases or old injuries can make themselves felt and lead to a change in plans. To avoid this, you need to take preventive measures in advance.
Pregnant
A dream in which a pregnant girl had a fight with a stranger suggests that some act of her regular partner will make her look at him without rose-colored glasses. The disappointment will be so strong that it will make you think about breaking up.
Quarrel with husband/wife's mother
A dream in which a woman quarrels with her mother-in-law means that she is surrounded by unpleasant people who ruin her life with their presence. Such a dream signals an urgent need to change the situation in order to protect yourself from the negative influence of such individuals. If this is not possible, dream books advise learning to ignore them. If in a dream a woman not only quarreled, but also got into a fight with her mother-in-law, this means that the actions of ill-wishers will be more active, they will annoy and create problems. To avoid negative consequences from meeting such people, it is better to temporarily avoid making new acquaintances, visiting companies and new places. A loud quarrel and fight with your mother-in-law is a sign of illness.
Where did they fight in the dream?
Interpretation of sleep depending on where the quarrel took place:
- quarreling with a woman at a wedding - dreams of sadness;
- at home - to loss of authority among colleagues;
- in the kitchen - to a misunderstanding in relations with a friend;
- on the street - to the desire for self-realization;
- in a public place - to enmity between loved ones;
- in a store - to the loss of an important document;
- in the market - to small financial losses;
- in a cafe or restaurant - to an awkward, ambiguous situation;
- in the car - to travel or move;
- on the bus - to the dreamer’s return of debt;
- on a tram - to the unexpected help of a friend;
- on a trolleybus - to a fun holiday with friends;
- in the subway - to problems due to rash decisions;
- at school - to problems due to inattention;
- in the hospital - to meeting an aggressive person;
- at sea - to disagreements with the leader;
- in church - to a great celebration;
- at the cemetery - to a pleasant meeting with a cheerful friend;
- at a funeral - to a risky business that will bring good luck.
What were they fighting about?
The meaning depends on why you fought with a girl in a dream:
- quarreling with a woman over money - dreams of resentment towards a colleague;
- over a trifle - to the emergence of an expensive hobby;
- because of nonsense - to unplanned repairs;
- due to study - a period of good luck and success;
- due to smoking - to a long fight with the enemy;
- due to drunkenness - to work on a boring project;
- due to misunderstanding - to an accident during the trip;
- due to inheritance - to loss of work due to the fault of enemies;
- because of an unsuccessful joke - to slander from neighbors;
- because of clothes - to the failure of a profitable deal;
- due to different views on life - intimate problems, illnesses;
- because of a guy/girl - to winning a bet or lottery;
- because of housing - to depression and difficult trials.
What did you do during the quarrel?
According to the Chinese Dream Book, depending on the actions of the dreamer, the meanings of dreams differ:
- Swearing and beating a woman means being overly dependent on other people's opinions.
- If you cried during a quarrel - to the successful acquisition of your own home.
- Yelling at a girl during a conflict means worrying about the health of the unborn child.
- Swearing and insulting a representative of the fair sex means an inevitable quarrel with your loved one.
- During a quarrel, pulling an unfamiliar woman by the hair means problems in communicating with the opposite sex.
- Shooting from a weapon or injuring with a knife means the emergence of a new hobby or a change of job.
- In a quarrel, hitting a lady with a stick means achieving your goal through perseverance.
Opinions of different interpreters
If in a dream you had to quarrel with your loved one, you need to remember
If you quarreled with your loved one in a dream
- what caused the altercation;
- who else was present during the showdown;
- how the unpleasant situation ended.
With a comprehensive answer to these questions, it will be possible to obtain the most accurate interpretation.
Less selfishness – calls for Miller’s dream book
The interpretation of this source has long been verified by millions of people. It is he who is first turned to in order to get the basic meaning of the dream, from which one can build further.
A well-known psychoanalyst pays attention to who exactly dreamed of a quarrel: a married woman or a young girl, because in some situations this can be of fundamental importance.
For a young girl
If a girl who is not yet married dreams of a quarrel with a guy, this is a very good sign. Even if before this their relationship was not very good, now is the time when they will reach the very peak of passion and love. A marriage proposal is quite possible.
- Yelling at your lover a lot means a quick romantic meeting, a pleasant time spent together.
- Quarrel with a guy, and then he starts beating you - the relationship will develop rapidly, and very soon you will get married.
- Loudly sorting things out in front of strangers, and then violently reconciling is a bad sign. Most likely, you will break up after a loud scandal. The most dangerous dream is a dream with a kiss; if at the end of a quarrel there was a kiss with a guy, it means that the separation will happen soon.
- Fighting with a girl in the bedroom - you are not satisfied with this relationship, but you don’t know how to break it.
For a married woman
If you quarreled with your husband
If a married woman dreams of a quarrel with her lover, then the meaning of the dream will depend on what kind of relationship you have in reality at the moment. Seeing a verbal altercation at a time when life nearby brings only pleasure is a sign of receiving a gift. And if you had to swear in a dream when some cooling had already occurred in reality, be prepared for a breakdown in an already shaky relationship.
- Strongly quarrels with her husband - feels distrust of him. If you make peace in the end, it means that even cool relationships can improve.
- The husband is involved in a squabble next to an unfamiliar girl - be careful, most likely you have a rival.
- In the heat of a quarrel, a fight began - a quick improvement in relations.
The power of passion - Freud's dream book
The pansexuality of this dream book is known to everyone. It also stands at the forefront when interpreting dreams about a quarrel with a guy. The power of a quarrel is almost equal to the power of passion. And if you have to swear and shout loudly at a stranger, it means that you are capable of going to bed on the first date.
- Arguing with a guy on the street means you are a very sexy person and attract the attention of many men. Your boyfriend is also crazy about you and wants to actively develop the relationship.
- Using fists to sort things out – sexual power is almost off the charts. You are ready for any experiments, as long as your loved one is with you.
- They will violently reconcile after a quarrel - often manifested selfishness in bed can lead to a cooling of the relationship in reality.
New sensations - family dream book
When to be wary
Swearing and showing not the best emotions in a dream means that your everyday life is gray and joyless. You want to return the freshness of feelings and a sense of romance. Don’t think that feelings have withered and the candy-bouquet period is far in the past. If you have misunderstandings in a relationship, then such a dream suggests that now is the most favorable time to resolve them.
If you dream that after a quarrel your lover turns around and leaves, be careful, this is a very unfavorable dream. The relationship is on the verge of collapse, so you need to decide for yourself how important it is in your life. And act accordingly. After waiting for some time and accepting your soulmate for who she is, you will have a chance for successful further development.
Who swore in a dream with a woman
The interpretation of the dream depends on who was arguing with the female person in the dream:
- if the mother quarreled with a stranger, such a dream symbolizes a quick marriage;
- grandmother - to interesting news;
- grandfather - for a long-awaited meeting with a friend;
- sister - to obstacles on the way to the desired goal;
- brother - to support from a loved one;
- son - to separation after a quarrel;
- daughter - for a trip to an exotic country;
- husband - to good luck and easy enrichment;
- wife - to success in new business;
- girlfriend or boyfriend - to a big win in gambling;
- relative - to illness and troubles at work;
- stranger - to success in business with the help of friends;
- neighbor - to receive remuneration for work;
- colleague - to respect in the work team;
- boss - to envy and attempts to harm colleagues.
Who exactly did they argue and quarrel with?
With Mother
If you dreamed that you were arguing or quarreling with your mother, G. Ivanov’s newest dream book predicts that starting your own business in the coming months will bring good profits.
With daughter
If you had a conflict with your daughter, according to Tsvetkov’s dream book, relying on the intercession of an influential patron will not be justified. Too many times before has he had to deal with the problems you create.
With Grandma
They argued with their grandmother - according to Vanga’s dream book, modesty does not allow the dreamer to act decisively in those moments when it is necessary. Don’t expect management to notice and appreciate your merits, show initiative.
With sister
If you quarreled with your sister, Phoebe’s big dream book warns that the chosen path to the goal will not be easy. You will have to face many obstacles. Before it's too late, it's worth reconsidering your priorities.
With a friend
If you dreamed of a conflict with a friend, Nostradamus’s dream book predicts that some event will help get rid of a bad habit.
With a colleague
Swearing with a colleague - according to the Muslim dream book, suggests that news from relatives will force you to dip into your emergency cash reserves. Most likely, they will ask for a loan. Help, soon you yourself may find yourself in their place.
With my husband's mistress
If you dreamed that you were arguing or quarreling with your mistress, the father of psychoanalysis, Sigmund Freud, considered this sign for a man as a fear of sexual impotence, sexual failure. A woman, most likely, subconsciously fears violence from the opposite sex.
With my wife
If you quarreled with your wife, according to the Wanderer’s dream book, you can prepare to take a higher position. Patronage will most likely come from your current manager. But you will have to justify the trust placed on your own.
Other dream interpretations
- quarrel with the boss - dreams of a pleasant surprise;
- with a neighbor - to the need to work a lot;
- with a pregnant woman - to longevity;
- with the mother of the husband/wife - for pleasant leisure;
- with your wife or lover - good news.
Why do you dream of a quarrel?
Dreams can be either a harbinger of real life situations or a simple projection of the experiences of a tired body.
Long-term observations have allowed people to compile dream books that interpret the most common dream situations that may foreshadow certain events.
Swearing, quarrels, fights and other conflict situations are frequent guests in the disturbing dreams of a modern person, tired of the fast rhythm of the 21st century. If the sleeper is forced to swear in a dream: what will such a dream lead to?
Basic interpretations
A strong emotional quarrel is most often a typical “reversal”: that is, reality promises the exact opposite situation - calm and tranquility in relationships with others. The subtleties of the situation seen or the personality of the sleeper himself can influence its interpretation:
- A quarrel with close people promises trouble, but with strangers it is most often a neutral event.
- For a married lady, this is a harbinger of discord with her husband, and for a single girl, it is a harbinger of troubles at work.
- A winter quarrel is a symbol of family quarrels, a summer quarrel is a symbol of difficulties with a significant other, a spring quarrel is a symbol of an acute conflict in reality, which can result in physical injury.
- If you dreamed of a quarrel on the 2nd, 16th, 25th, 29th, this is an “empty” dream that should not be taken as an omen of anything.
- The Chinese consider a quarrel in a dream a sign of impending joy, and the Iranians will lament an imminent loss.
But what if the sleeper is tempted to swear in a dream: why dream of such an event? Psychologists note that often quarrels and swearing seen at night are a consequence of the transfer of problems and difficulties from everyday life.
Very often, women continue to quarrel with their ex-husband in their sleep if they are in a state of exhausting long separation. Sometimes a daytime conflict moves to sleep if it does not find a solution in the real world.
There are often situations when a dream of a quarrel with a boring person or a long-time hater foreshadows getting rid of a long-term conflict: either the annoying factor will disappear from life, or options for reconciliation will be found. Such a vision, as a rule, is a direct continuation of a real conflict and an attempt to model a way out of the current situation.
Quarrels with loved ones
Most often, the other party to the conflict in a dream becomes people close to us. The reason for this is banal - the strong experiences and feelings you have for your family make you worry about them even when you are sleeping.
Seeing such a situation means experiencing dissatisfaction with one’s behavior, relationships with loved ones, and subconsciously wanting a successful solution to problems. Who did you see the quarrel with:
- Swearing with your mother in a dream means transferring your intense attachment to her to the subconscious level. As a rule, such dreams associated with swearing, quarrels or even fights with a parent symbolize the approach of troubles and problems. These troubles will not necessarily be associated with the mother, but the blame for what happened will fall on the dreamer.
- Arguing in a dream with a loved one means subconsciously preparing yourself for significant expenses that will have negative consequences. Another interpretation suggests that if you quarrel with a guy in your night dreams, all negativity is reset. In this case, the vision symbolizes warmth and harmony in the relationship.
- If you quarrel with your husband in a dream, then you should expect family troubles. The brighter the conflict in the dream and the stronger the emotions of the awakened woman (for example, tears on the pillow), the more likely serious troubles are: illness of relatives, difficulties in communication. If the night scandal does not upset you, then the interpretation is completely opposite: you should expect improved health or a complete recovery.
- A swearing child is a sure harbinger of difficulties in communicating with a teenager: parents face the dangers of adolescence and misunderstanding. But there is no need to be afraid of such dreams: they should help you choose the right path of communication and search for mutual understanding with the child.
To believe or not to believe?
So, swearing in a dream: what does such an event mean? Most often, this speaks of a person’s intense desire to resolve a tormenting conflict in any way and remove certain difficulties from his life.
Often such dreams come to peaceful and calm people, for whom such behavior is completely uncharacteristic. Consciously prohibiting themselves from resolving conflicts in this way in everyday life, they splash out their emotions in their dreams. This situation can have two solutions:
- Either the person will let off steam and find peaceful ways to resolve the conflict.
- Either the night scene will aggravate the psychological tension, which will ultimately result in either a full-fledged quarrel or a protracted depression.
In order to avoid unnecessary emotionality, psychologists advise correctly assessing your desires and aspirations, “reading” yourself and understanding yourself. Your own well-being and psychological balance should be a priority for everyone.
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No matter how the dream is interpreted: whether it promises positive changes or negative events, it is important to realize that everything in life is subject to man. Everyone chooses for themselves whether to believe dreams or consider them the product of a tired brain.
But one thing is true: bring positivity into our lives, change our behavior and reconsider our relationships with people in our power. And positive reality will bring good nights without swearing and quarrels.
Author: Lyudmila Tikhomirova
Other dream plots
- Having an argument with a woman while walking means dreaming of the patronage of influential people.
- If you quarrel and immediately make peace, you will regret the missed chance to change your life.
- Asking for forgiveness after a quarrel risks getting into an awkward situation at work.
- Having a strong quarrel and hitting a woman in anger means a desire to return passion to the relationship.
- Insulting a girl and getting a slap in the face means demotion due to irresponsible behavior.
- Swearing at a woman who is yelling at your son or daughter means a pleasant walk in the company of a friend.
- Quarrel with a lady who yells at the dog - to the help of loved ones in difficult times.
- If a woman cried during a conflict, this means anxious thoughts in connection with impending changes.
- Scolding a girl for something means dismissal due to her inability to defend her interests.
- If in a dream a woman complained about a quarrel to a policeman, it means an unsuccessful attempt to deceive someone.
- Seeing a quarrel from the outside means a serious illness in one of the family members.
- If you dreamed of swearing for no reason - to a happy family life surrounded by loved ones.
- Swearing at a drunk woman means problems at work due to inappropriate behavior.
- Quarreling with a girl on the phone means trouble due to frivolous actions.
- During a scandal, a woman humiliates you and swears at you - to disagreement and conflict with friends.
- To be offended by a woman after a quarrel is a sign of disappointment in a loved one because of his meanness.
- Feeling guilty because of a quarrel is a sign of good news from distant relatives.
- If a woman is offended after a quarrel, this means excessive irritability and nervousness.
- Arguing with a stranger among your friends is an opportunity to relax and improve your health.
- If madame tries to drag the dreamer into a conflict, this means resolving the existing conflict.
- Hugging after swearing means unappreciated efforts and wasted work.
- Standing up for a stranger during a quarrel means renewing an old romantic relationship.
- Killing a woman during a quarrel means receiving a well-deserved monetary reward.
Conflict resolution
In such dreams, it is very important to remember how the quarrel ended. If the vision ended and you woke up without making peace, listen to the relationship in reality. Perhaps your lover is not in the best shape right now to evoke positive emotions in you. Just give your partner time.
- The quarrel smoothly turned into a fist fight - this is one of the most positive dreams. If in a dream you were beaten until you bled, a long and strong marriage is guaranteed to you.
- After sorting out the relationship, your loved one left with people you didn’t know - your inner world is alien to your other half. Most likely, the relationship has run its course.
- Seeing you make up and promise each other not to quarrel anymore is a good sign. You always engage in dialogue and are ready to compromise.
- Stormy reconciliation, kissing after a quarrel - separation due to departure.
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Interpretation of sleep depending on the day of the week
The correct interpretation of sleep depends on the day of the week:
- On Monday he quarrels with a girl - he dreams of participating in social activities.
- On Tuesday - to find a partner for a new relationship.
- On Wednesday - a slight malaise in the coming days.
- On Thursday - hard and long work.
- On Friday - to false accusations from colleagues.
- On Saturday - to a strange risky proposal.
- On Sunday - loss of reputation due to gullibility.