Innocence in a dream
For a married woman, a dream in which she was a virgin indicates the presence of a shameful past that haunts the dreamer and will probably remind her of itself.
Freud's dream book describes why virginity is dreamed of by the excessive modesty and enslavement of a sleeping person, which prevents him from completely opening up and trusting his partner, depriving him of heavenly pleasure and true pleasure in sex. Also, Dr. Freud associates the dream image with the dreamer’s deliberate downplaying of his own merits.
Miller's dream book interprets why a man dreams of being in the company of a virgin as a harbinger of the collapse of a certain business. In addition, the implementation of previously unfulfilled promises made by the dreamer to someone will become a source of new troubles and troubles in reality.
Who had the dream
According to the Family Dream Book, sleeping with a virgin promises troubles and quarrels with relatives.
To a woman
- For a young unmarried lady - a pleasant surprise from a fan.
- For the bride - surprises at the wedding celebration.
- For a family lady - to chagrin because of children.
- For a widow - to commit a frivolous act that will be condemned by others.
To a man
- For a young man - to meet a frivolous person.
- For the groom - to a quarrel with the bride.
- For a married man - to troubles at work.
Pregnant
Pregnant women dream about a virgin to fear childbirth.
Loss of innocence
A modern dream book explains why a chaste girl dreams of losing her virginity, a feeling of awkwardness in the company of an unfamiliar person.
Dream Interpretation from A to Z associates a dream about the loss of virginity with the inability to resist the charms of a young man who has quite bold claims to the dreamer’s honor.
If you dreamed not of the process of deflowering, but simply a statement of fact, it means, according to Catherine the Great’s dream book, in real life the young lady has sufficient prudence and self-control to preserve her honor and reputation.
“Why does a virgin dream in a dream? If you see a Virgin in a dream, what does it mean?
Eastern dream book
Why does the Virgin dream in a dream according to the dream book?
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For a young woman to dream that she is a virgin means: she will bitterly repent of the mistakes of her youth.
Ancient Persian dream book Taflisi
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If anyone sees a virgin in a dream, he will receive benefits from trade or his craft.
Women's dream book
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If you dreamed that you did not give in to persuasion and remained a virgin, you will have to experience pangs of conscience, remembering the mistakes that you once made.
Italian dream book
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Virgin - suppression, restraint or denial of life.
Maly Velesov dream book
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Virgin - wonder, happiness, joy, wealth / troubles (married), becoming a widow (woman), change in life, illness; dancing - love; a lot in the house - wealth; catch - freedom; playing with her is a good conversation; beautiful - joy, there was wetness: you need to bow to her / the weather is bad; terrible - trouble.
Muslim dream book
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If anyone sees a virgin in a dream, he will receive benefits from trade or his craft.
Modern dream book
Find out what it means if you dream about a Virgin?
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Seeing a virgin in a dream means that your affairs will be relatively successful.
For a young woman to dream that she is a virgin is a sign that she will suffer, regretting her past; the future also does not promise her anything good.
For a young girl to see that she is not a virgin is a harbinger that her reputation will be under great threat from her male acquaintances.
For a man to see a relationship with a virgin in a dream means that he will fail in business and his actions will be the subject of criticism from other people.
Insulting a virgin in a dream with unpleasant, offensive remarks means that in life you will be punished for some offense.
If in a dream you wanted to take a virgin as your wife, in reality a certain lady will be interested in you.
A dream in which you married a virgin promises you peace and quiet in your home, health and well-being in your family.
Dream Interpretation 2012
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A virgin is not in an erotic dream - a reflection of primordiality, innocence, naivety, and lack of experience. Necessity of knowledge (also opportunity). Reflection of the immature feminine aspect.
The stereotype that a virgin is best suited for marriage is harmful. This is not the reason for either bad or good family relationships.
Dream Interpretation of Denise Lynn
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The myth that a virgin is the most desirable object for marriage does great harm. Fortunately, this myth is changing. Unity comes from a mature understanding of the essence of relationships.
Dream Interpretation of Dmitry and Nadezhda Zima
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Seeing a virgin in a dream foretells the beginning of an unknown business.
Calmness or a smile on her face is a sign that you will be able to achieve some success.
An ugly virgin is a warning. Perhaps it is better for you not to take on matters in which you have no experience.
An old maid in a dream reminds you that you are too slow in implementing some plans and affairs. The dream warns that time may be hopelessly lost.
Dream Interpretation of Love Relationships
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If you dream that you are a virgin, this means that you are too modest and are trying to be as inconspicuous as possible. Therefore, rarely anyone notices you, and your intimate life is not going well. Believe me, sex is an important part of life, blue stockings are not in fashion today!
Dream Interpretation from A to Z
Why see a Virgin in a dream?
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If you, being married, imagine yourself as a virgin in a dream, it means that in reality you will be tormented by visions of a shameful past and the future will not bring comfort to your soul.
Dream interpretation of a modern woman
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If a married woman saw herself as a virgin in a dream, she will be tormented by remorse over the past, but the future does not promise her good luck.
If a young girl dreams that she is no longer a virgin, she will show prudence and be able to maintain her reputation.
A man who sees himself in company with a virgin will in reality fail in some task. Unfulfilled promises made to other people will bring him worries and upset his affairs.
Miller's Dream Book
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Seeing a virgin in a dream means that relative success awaits you in your affairs.
For a married woman to see herself as a virgin in a dream, predicts that she will be tormented by remorse because of her past, but the future does not promise her good luck.
If a young girl sees in a dream that she is no longer a virgin, the dream foretells that she will be able to maintain her reputation and show prudence.
For a man to see himself in company with a virgin means that he will fail in some task. Unfulfilled promises made to other people will bring him worries and upset his affairs.
Dream Interpretation of Fedorovskaya
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Insulting a virgin in a dream with unpleasant, offensive remarks means that in life you will be punished for some offense.
If in a dream you wanted to take a virgin as your wife, in reality a certain lady will be interested in you.
A dream in which you married a virgin promises you peace and quiet in your home, health and well-being in your family.
Freud's Dream Book
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Seeing yourself as a virgin or virgin in a dream means that in real life you are too modest, so rarely does anyone have the intention of making love towards you. You deliberately downplay your merits, making them invisible.
Pregnant virgin
Despite the disturbing dream plot, in which untouched girls had to go through pregnancy and childbirth in a dream, interpreters have a positive explanation associated with the speedy resolution of problems and concerns in real life.
Miller associates pregnancy and childbirth of a virgin dreamer with profit and good luck. You should be wary of new acquaintances and thoughtless connections, since there is a high risk of being deceived.
Rock out!
In general, sex in a dream is a contradictory symbol, indicating both insult and unity, emotional release and pent-up aggression.
But most often it hints at some delay, stagnation or obstacles. The dream book believes that you literally need to swing a little.
Dreamers who lack them in reality can see sexual pleasures. In dreams, there is usually a release on the emotional level, which has a beneficial effect in everyday life.
Keep yourself together, everything will get better soon
Losing a man's virginity promises great success among the opposite sex. However, you should not count on a quick change in your reputation, since it directly depends on your actions.
For a young lady who lost her virginity the day before, seeing such a dream speaks of the dreamer’s internal anxiety associated with her new status. Also, such a plot foreshadows the young lady’s worries about an unwanted pregnancy, which in reality will turn out to be just groundless fears.
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“Here we go again, messing with her! She can’t do anything!” — this is what one of my acquaintances says, talking about a relationship with a virgin. No wonder. There are such men too, although others - those who tick boxes in their even virtual notebook - are more common. At all times, the unknown and unknown to anyone (and a virgin, in fact, is such a “terra incognita”) stopped some, and, on the contrary, pushed others to discoveries. What should you know about such an “unknown” if a girl suddenly appears on your way who, as they say, has not yet known a man’s affection?
According to experts - doctors, psychologists, sex therapists - a modern girl becomes psychologically mature for sexual relations at the age of 14-15, and physically at 11-12. At this age, as a rule, secondary sexual characteristics clearly appear: breasts are expressed, feminine roundness of the body appears, teenage angularity disappears. But here we should not forget about criminal liability for sex, even by mutual consent, with someone who is not yet 16 years old (you, in turn, must be over 18). At the same time, according to various surveys, most girls lose their innocence at the age of 15–17.
Of course, there are exceptions when a girl remains a virgin even after 25 years, which most likely indicates her immaturity, in other words, infantilism.
In some cases, sex therapists say, she should seek advice from specialists, and you should think: why did she experience such a delay?
“These are such innocent princesses, touchy princesses... This is the image of Assoli, who stood on the shore and reasoned: “A man will sail under scarlet sails, I will surrender to him, but under white ones I will not surrender.” For further normal life, such women can only be suitable for those men who are quite infantile themselves,” said psychotherapist and sexologist Igor Poperechny.
Men behave differently with virgins. Some, like my friend, simply don’t want to get involved with them and “tighten the bit” as soon as it turns out that the girl has not yet been “travelled” by anyone. Psychologists explain this by hidden fear - you are her first, which means you have an incredible burden of responsibility for her future fate. This taboo was especially cultivated in our Soviet past: “If you sleep, get married!”
True, my friend explains his behavior with slight cynicism by the fact that a virgin in bed does not know how to do anything and it will take a long time to mess with her.
Others, on the contrary, organize a real hunt for “unplucked buds”, marking their victories in special notebooks. And it doesn’t matter whether it’s a real paper notebook or some separate file of your brain. “For some, this is explained by a peculiar desire for purity, they say, they’re tired of walking around with whores, but here I’m her first,” noted Doctor Poperechny.
Psychotherapist-sexologist Igor Lyakh added about such collectors: “This is a consumer attitude. Raising your own self-esteem. Such a person’s self-esteem (self-esteem - I.K.) is at least unstable, and at maximum underestimated. In some cases, this is a colossal fear of competition with other men. So you are the first, and you are guaranteed no competition. Which sometimes speaks of complexes.”
Most often, a girl chooses the first man for whom she has a feeling of love. Experts have different assessments of the type of potential “deflorator”. Some say that some of such contacts occur spontaneously with their peers, others note that if a virgin consciously prepares for such an act, she usually chooses a man older than herself.
Subconsciously, she strives to surrender to the hands of a more experienced partner, who, as a rule, is not a peer in her eyes. If you are lucky, you are her first, her desire coincided with yours and you ended up in bed, here you need to be extremely delicate and careful. Even if a girl is ready for sex, fear will still be present. Remember that most virgins in bed really don’t know how to do anything yet, even if they have read a bunch of specialized literature before. Here you need to caress your partner for as long as possible, despite your, most likely, great desire and excitement. It is necessary for her to be as excited and relaxed as possible. Forget about speed and aggression, this is not a sporting competition.
As for the technical side of such sex, it is believed that it is as painless as possible when the partner lies on her back, with her knees bent, and a pillow under her buttocks. Or in the doggy style position (doggy style), when the girl can control the process and “go” forward if she suddenly feels pain. Your penetration should be gradual and careful - according to the principle of “one step forward, two steps back.”
Sharp penetration is justified when you are convinced that it will be unique and accurate. Otherwise, it’s better to “slowly and sadly, but surely.”
Discussing sex life before marriage, Dr. Poperechny noted that this is an important thing: “It’s stupid if, for example, we are going to get married, but the most sincere and natural behavior between lovers has not yet occurred. All this surroundings, all the intellectuality and so on, disappears in bed. The person becomes natural."
And one more small clarification: as a rule, relationships in a couple where the girl was a virgin persist for a long time only in approximately every tenth union. But she will remember you, believe me, for the rest of her life. Just like my first school teacher.
Rest assured, your risk will be worth it
Seeing a girl in a dream and knowing that she is a virgin, according to the dream book of Catherine the Great, tells a man that in order to successfully resolve the current case, he will have to take a risk, which will most likely be justified.
According to the Muslim interpreter, losing virginity in a dream speaks of the next, new stage of development of the sleeping person. Thus, for people busy with a career or promoting their own business, deprivation of effectiveness in a dream predicts the need to take decisive steps for their own development.
Sonarium
Dreams about losing your virginity are not that uncommon for young girls. They can both reflect their subconscious desires and warn about the transition to a new stage of life, which may not be so easy, including those associated with slander and insults.
If a young woman dreams that she wants to lose her virginity, which she no longer possesses, or sees herself in the image of an immaculate maiden lying down with a man, this suggests that she will soon be able to meet a man who will give her real feminine happiness and reveal everything sides of her nature. For a man, a dream about being in the company of an innocent girl can speak either of a successful start to some business, or of his own inhibitions in the sexual sphere.