Often, “future wives” on the eve of their wedding day have nightmares that her lover has changed his mind about getting married and has not appeared at the registry office. Psychologists call this pre-nuptial syndrome. But if it happens that you are not going to get married, and you dreamed of a wedding without a groom, then be sure to find out why you dream about such a plot, dream books advise. Especially if the event in the dream was in your honor.
Personal celebration is a sign of nervous tension
Pastor Loff's dream book, in explaining why you dream about your wedding without a groom, gives the following recommendations: stop “putting pressure” on your loved one. The dreamer feels that she is limiting her chosen one too much, but is afraid of losing him if she loses her vigilance even for a moment. The result can be disastrous: either the girl will lose her nerve, or the guy will run out of patience.
The Eastern dream book is less categorical. Your own wedding without a groom, seen in a dream, is a symbol of a new relationship, perhaps even with the same partner. But having your wedding in a church, where the girl is alone at the altar, is a sign that there is no “closeness of souls” in the couple. This is a marriage not so much for love, but because “everyone does it, and I need it.”
Wedding with an ex-boyfriend or husband
Dreams about getting married to an ex warn of approaching danger, a wrong action that can destroy well-being and peace. Many interpretations prophesy minor troubles. The dream also speaks of the need to think less about the past. A wedding with an ex-partner can be dreamed of for various reasons:
- longing for the past - positive moments experienced together can play the role of a strong anchor, not allowing a person to let go of the past. It is advisable to concentrate on the present, come up with goals and achieve them;
- the breakup with the ex-boyfriend occurred without discussing the reasons - there were unspoken thoughts, grievances that now haunt;
- an unconscious feeling of gratitude - sometimes a break contributes to the emergence of new constructive relationships and improved well-being for both partners;
- Perhaps there are thoughts about returning to your ex if you are not satisfied with the new stage of life.
Contrary to popular belief that a dream about a wedding with a former lover is a bad omen, Alfred Adler’s dream book offers the opposite version. His predictions indicate an imminent opportunity to correct the mistakes made. This chance cannot be missed.
Someone else's wedding: From misunderstandings to danger
Have you seen someone else's wedding without a groom in a dream? Remember whether you know the bride or not, and dream books will tell you why you dream about it. Is the bride in a dream an unfamiliar woman? There is nothing terrible in the dream; all you will encounter is a minor misunderstanding.
And if the bride was a close friend, then this speaks of your affection for her, especially if you have been close friends for a long time. You are afraid of losing “a piece of yourself” if she gets married, so you subconsciously do not want her to marry, explains the Lunar Dream Book.
In a dream, did your friend’s wedding get upset because her groom was taken away by another woman? Warn your friend that she is in danger.
Details of a wedding without a groom
If in her night dreams a woman was at her own wedding, and there was no candidate for husband, this indicates an impending collapse of the dreamer’s plans, or an upcoming event that she will remember for a long time.
Interpretation of the dream depending on the actions of the dreamer and her fiance in the plot:
- The sleeping woman comes to the altar alone in her wedding attire (without the groom) - this is an indication that in reality the lady overestimates the significance of her failures in love. The dream book tells you: you shouldn’t give up, happiness is close.
- During the course of the plot, the sleeping woman cries because of a failed marriage - the threshold of good luck in her personal life, the meeting of a worthy man.
- The newlywed leaves the wedding celebration in front of the dreamer - a harbinger of disappointment due to a failed wedding in reality. You should not decide in a hurry, you need to show rational thinking.
- The groom leaving the church in the company of another woman right during the wedding with the dreamer is a signal of mistrust in the relationship with his partner. Perhaps the sleeping woman suspects her beloved of something, which has a bad effect on intimate relationships.
- The newlyweds leave the celebration together in its midst - an omen of a new blossoming of love in a couple in reality.
- The newlywed runs away from the wedding after the celebration - a signal: the lady has something to worry about, the lover is showing dishonesty towards the dreamer.
- A woman who is recently married regularly dreams of a dream with an absent groom - a signal: the dreamer is under excessive pressure from her new marital status.
- The newlywed left the wedding after a quarrel with the bride that happened right near the altar - a harbinger of a major scandal between lovers in reality. To avoid a break in the relationship, the dreamer must become more restrained.
- The newlywed is kidnapped from the Wedding Palace, and the bride is looking for him and cannot find him - a warning in reality, someone will try to destroy the union of loving hearts.
- The sleeping woman found the kidnapped groom, the wedding ended successfully - young people in reality will cope with any crisis in their relationship.
The dreamer is a man
It is curious that people of different sexes dream about weddings on the eve of different events. For freedom-loving machos, seeing this symbol in a dream is much worse than for a girl dreaming of marriage.
Options for interpreting a dream about your own wedding without a hero of the occasion for men:
- If a young guy had a dream, this means that he is afraid to register a relationship with his chosen one or does not fully trust his girlfriend with whom he is dating. He may consider her frivolous and unsuitable for family ties. In any of these cases, you should not rush to get married in reality.
- If a married man saw such a dream, it means that he is not satisfied with his family life. Perhaps his wife is to blame for putting too much pressure on him. Or maybe a man who has reached a certain age just wants to “have fun” like his youth.
If a young guy had a dream, this means that he is afraid to register a relationship with his chosen one
Someone else's wedding: who is the bride?
If you dreamed of someone else’s wedding, to which the groom did not come, the dream book suggests interpreting, taking into account who the bride was, what relation she has to the dreamer:
- Stranger - nothing to worry about. All that awaits the sleeping person in reality are minor troubles.
- A close friend - a dream signals excessive attachment to this sleeping friend. The dreamer is afraid of losing a part of herself, so she subconsciously does not want her friend to get married (the Lunar Dream Book talks about this).
- If a friend’s wedding did not take place because the newlywed was taken away by a nimble temptress, the dreamer must definitely inform the friend about the danger.
In my night dreams I had to see the bride at the altar in all her beauty (in a wedding dress, with a veil), holding in her hands a photograph of her deceased betrothed, with whom she ended up getting married - Nostradamus’s dream book prophesies big troubles for the dreamer. The prediction is enhanced if the wedding robe was black.
If you dreamed of a wedding without a bride, the dream book interprets this dream as an indicator of harmony in the couple of the dreamer and her betrothed.
Reason for no-show
No matter whose wedding you dream of without a groom, remember an important detail: what exactly prevented the newlywed from attending the celebration. This is necessary for an accurate interpretation of the dream.
- The groom forgot about the wedding day - unpleasant news.
- I dreamed that the failed spouse was taken away by a homewrecker - to a quarrel with her lover.
- A young man changes his mind about getting married - expect deception from his friends.
- The would-be groom got stuck in a traffic jam or arrived in the wrong place - leading to unnecessary fuss and hassle.
What does it portend?
A vision in which the bride and groom quarrel right at the wedding altar has a very bad interpretation, after which the man leaves. Usually this dream means that lovers will have to go through a real, very big quarrel that could destroy their union. The owner of the vision needs to show extreme restraint in the future, otherwise her relationship may collapse.
If in a vision the groom is kidnapped from the registry office, and the bride cannot find him, it means that in real life someone will try to harm the lovers by destroying their strong union. Such ill-wishers should be immediately brought to light, since their activities in reality can greatly harm both the woman and her significant other.
A good interpretation is a dream in which a woman nevertheless finds her lover, after which the wedding ceremony resumes. This vision means that the owner of the vision and her significant other will be able to cope with all crises in their relationship.
An unpleasant dream about a groom disappearing from a wedding can frighten a lady even if she does not plan to prepare for the wedding. A vision can have both a positive and a purely negative interpretation, and numerous details will help the dreamer correctly predict her future.
