An ex-wife in a dream is a double, ambiguous image. A person who for some—in some cases quite a long—time was a family member, one of the closest, but who later turned into an unloved and unwanted person, can evoke a variety of emotions in the dreamer. Someone will be inflamed with hatred for the culprit of unjustified expectations and broken hopes, someone will indulge in nostalgic longing for lost times and past, but ardent and happy love, and someone will be happy to see their ex-wife in a dream and will be fired up by the idea of returning the relationship to full circle its.
In order to correctly interpret such a dream, you need to understand your own attitude towards the woman you saw, and also pay attention to what exactly the dreamer had to do with her in the dream.
Most often, the appearance of an ex-wife in a dream is associated with the dreamer’s reluctance to end the relationship.
It is possible that recently, or even since the breakup, he has not stopped thinking about the woman he saw in his dream. If his desire to return to their happy family life is really great, he should definitely move from thoughts to action. A dream is often a harbinger that the relationship can be saved, that the decision to divorce was hasty and thoughtless.
What do dreams say?
According to research by psychologists, dreams come 10-15 minutes before waking up. At this time, the person’s pulse quickens and the pupils begin to move. At this time, the subconscious is looking for an answer to a question that has been bothering you for a long time. According to Freud, dreams are an expression of a person's emotional state. A dream that repeats every night indicates that the problem has not been solved. The most common subject in dreams is relatives and acquaintances.
According to Freud's dream book
For men:
- dreaming of hugging a naked wife means harmony and comfort in the house;
- kissing her means popularity.
- scolding - to the visit of uninvited guests;
- walking with her is a public insult.
For women:
- husband and his ex-wife naked - to appropriation of other people's merits.
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Ex-wife
No matter how trivial it may sound, most men often dream of the return of their wife, with whom the relationship did not work out. Some believe that this happens because the woman has been thinking about her husband all this time and is really ready to take a step back.
To others, this happening seems to be a symbol of trouble. Still others wake up in a cold sweat, glad that it was just a dream. What does the dream book say, why do you dream about your ex-wife?
According to Miller
This phenomenon means facing unresolved problems. If in a dream you calmly communicate on neutral topics, but:
- Ex-wife in life with a difficult character - the problem you will face will become a serious obstacle.
- The ex-wife is sociable and friendly in life - any matter will be resolved in your favor.
But scandals, screams and swearing, or, conversely, hugs and violent kisses are a signal that you have not completely let go of the situation with the breakup and are striving to resume lost contact. You should weigh the pros and cons, give the situation an objective assessment and make a decision: let go and forget your spouse or try to return everything.
According to Vanga
It is seen as a symbol of the fact that there are unspoken words and unfinished business between you. The dream encourages you to resolve the conflict situation whenever possible - through peaceful negotiations, dotting all the i’s.
According to Loff
In a dream, seeing an ex-lover, as well as any other relative - mother-in-law, brother, mother - means that not everything is going smoothly in your current relationships with people around you. Take a moment and evaluate your surroundings:
- Who is easy to communicate with and who is boring?
- Who gives and who only demands (emotions, time, money, any other material and intangible benefits)?
- Who do you have strong friendships and partnerships with, and who treats you with exaggerated courtesy, masking hostility?
Working through any connections with people around you will allow you to get rid of “toxic” relationships in your life.
According to Nostradamus
Seeing a once loved one in your dreams is a sign that you are fixated on the past and are in dire need of change. Did your wishes not come true, did your dreams collapse, did your plans go to waste? Try to let go of the past, set new goals, realize yourself in other ideas.
According to Tsvetkov
Seeing your ex-wife means returning to solving old issues. Scandal or swearing - restore good relations with someone with whom you had a fight out of nowhere. Seeing your ex-wife crying means success in business and a good mood.
According to Freud
An ex-wife in dreams is a symbol of the fact that you still feel attracted to her and are thinking about divorce. Kissing your ex-wife is an unconscious experience that old mistakes are being repeated in a new relationship. Analyze where, what and when it went wrong and try to avoid this in the future.
For those who have long forgotten their ex-wife, the dream may indicate that in a new relationship you consider your companion as a potential other half with whom you can create a strong family.
Esoteric dream book
The largest list of dream interpretation options is offered by the esoteric dream book. It contains the results of observations of many generations. According to the collection, there are a whole lot of options when the ex-wife appears in different situations, and decoding of such dreams.
- Seeing your ex-wife in a dream means getting help in any matter: business, work, difficult life situation.
- I dreamed of an ex-wife with a son who never existed - financial losses, worries, and worries may await in the future. If he was just born, on the contrary, an unplanned acquisition will happen in life: a new relationship, a successful deal, a promotion at work, meeting a person who will play an important role in your destiny.
You dreamed of your ex-wife with your own son, whom you have not seen for a long time or have seen only recently - you will receive news related to his affairs. A deceased child is a great concern for his well-being. My son’s excellent health means groundless fears and worries. Your son is calling you - he may need some help. Seeing your ex-wife, son and other relatives in a large company or at a family feast - a matter that is very important to you now will become the subject of loud discussions and disputes, but will be resolved in your favor.- If you dreamed about your ex-wife in the hospital, you will have a quick recovery or you are in excellent health, so any hassle and worry in life associated with tests and visits to doctors will be in vain.
- Seeing an ex-lover or any other woman naked is a sign of shame or emotional unrest. Perhaps you have committed some act for which you still cannot forgive yourself and are worried that others will find out that your actions were not entirely plausible.
- In a dream, you saw your ex-wife with her hair down - your other half, with whom you are trying to build a relationship, has a secret relationship, you are not aware of it. An acquaintance, friend, lover or any other person who is hidden from you, regardless of the reason. In some versions, there is an interpretation that such a dream is a warning that colleagues and colleagues have started a secret struggle against you and are plotting intrigues.
Real situation or fantasy
If you had a dream in which an episode from real life was repeated, this is a reason to think.
The vision predicts troubles, scandals for the dreamer, and sometimes the return of feelings and problems that you considered left in the past. They can be both positive and negative. If you dream that you love each other again, or your spouse asks you for forgiveness, then this is a sign of disappointment in reality. Most likely, the dreamer is simply waiting for such a turn of events and loves his wife, since feelings have not yet cooled down.
If you dream that she is starting a scandal or is again in charge of the dreamer’s house, she will make an attempt to return or start a major quarrel or scandal. The modern dream book warns that this is seen as a complication in relationships.
If night visions look like revived memories or fantasies where there is still love, they should not be interpreted. In reality, they foreshadow disappointment and bitterness of loss.
Especially if in reality the husband wants to return his wife or hopes that they will be together again.
There are other dreams that are associated with the manifestation of curiosity. For example, you see in a dream that your spouse loves another person, brings him into the house or lives in his apartment.
Sometimes you meet her in a public place with a new lover or learn from friends about her hobby. There is some truth in such dreams, but most often they are dictated by your fantasies and curiosity about how her personal life is shaping up after the divorce.
Sometimes a vision predicts a meeting or news for you. But seeing erotic scenes in which her lover hugs her is a bad sign.
The Islamic dream interpreter indicates that feelings have not yet cooled down, but that lady will greatly humiliate you with her words or behavior. So think about yourself and learn self-respect.
Wife in other situations
Very often, dreams become a full-fledged story about some situation in which, in addition to your ex, there are other people present. On this score, many dream books also give their interpretation of the situation. Before you begin the interpretation, remember in detail: what preceded the dream, where the action takes place, who else besides the ex-wife was present as clearly as if you saw him in reality.
According to Miller
Seeing your ex pregnant means the start of a new venture that will be successful and productive. If she is expecting a child from her husband, whom she married after divorcing you, then unpleasant rumors and gossip about your person may appear among friends, relatives or acquaintances. You can overcome troubles and turn the situation in your favor, coming out unscathed.
Seeing a pregnant wife from a former lover means nothing good should be expected. The dream speaks of a possible betrayal by someone from your inner circle; obviously, you did not notice changes in behavior or motives for actions, but in the subconscious it could well take hold and result in this way.
According to Vanga
If you saw your ex-wife pregnant or with a child, it means big changes are coming in your life. They can be both good and bad. According to Vanga, there is no direct connection with your current relationship.
According to Loff
Is your ex pregnant with her new man? The subconscious mind says that a new, bright, exciting relationship awaits you, which is worth plunging headlong into. If the dream has a negative emotional connotation, troubles may arise in the business you are currently engaged in. You need to tune in to the challenges and not give up. Everything will work out.
According to Freud
The pregnancy of your ex-wife is the beginning of a new stage in your life or relationship. You have become older, more experienced, wiser. Pay close attention to your work situation. Perhaps the dream suggests that you should expect success in running your own business, expanding your circle of business connections, a significant increase at work, which will ultimately lead to improved material well-being.
Esoteric dream book
According to this dream book, seeing pregnant not only your wife, ex, lover, but also any other woman: your brother’s ex-wife, your second cousin on your mother’s side, your father’s great-niece - in any case means an addition. Mainly financially. Material well-being, increased wealth, a new profitable business, winning the lottery - pregnancy is always a signal that good luck is with you.
Other dream options and their interpretation
It is also recommended to consider possible other situations that happened to a man during his vacation, and included extraneous details:
- The appearance of a deceased wife speaks of longing for her.
- Laughter promises quick changes in life for the better.
- The appearance of a happy lady speaks of the sadness of the dreamer in reality.
- Seeing a woman with another man indicates the need for change.
- A lady with her lover dreams of the appearance of an enemy.
- A pregnant wife symbolizes impending danger.
- With a child in his arms, he speaks of receiving news soon.
In a situation where a past life partner appears in a sick state or in need of help, the dream can be interpreted as a harbinger of financial or health problems.
Days of the week
Particular attention should be paid to the day on which the wife appears in a person’s dream:
- Monday - such a dream often foreshadows conflict;
- Tuesday – success or difficulties at work;
- environment – resolution of pressing problems;
- Thursday - such dreams can become prophetic and come true in reality;
- Friday – the wife’s desire to return the relationship;
- Saturday - positive changes are coming;
- Sunday - a dream can mean troubles or prosperity.
In order to fully interpret the phenomenon, it is necessary to clarify all the details that happened to the person in the dream.
Important! Often such dreams indicate unresolved psychological problems, so if possible, you should visit a psychologist.
The dream does not necessarily promise anything about future changes. There are often situations when a dream merely symbolizes the dreamer’s mental torment. At such a moment, you need to try within yourself, and also not to take what happened literally, since the expectation of an upcoming event can subsequently be perceived negatively, or become a reason for serious disappointment. If it is necessary to analyze the interpretation in more detail, it is extremely important to clarify all the details.
Wife and relatives
If the spouse dreams of being in the company of other people, the interpretation of the dream may be of a different nature. Why do you dream about your ex-wife surrounded by relatives?
According to Miller
See:
- wife and mother-in-law - miss their old life;
- wife and mother - your business will go uphill;
- wife and children - a cheerful, noisy company awaits you;
- ex-wife and father - a journey awaits you.
According to Vanga
According to the Bulgarian clairvoyant, any relatives, including ex-spouses, who appear in dreams are a warning about an accident or illness of relatives. If one of your relatives dies in a dream, this symbolizes imminent betrayal on the part of loved ones.
According to Freud
Seeing your ex-wife and mother-in-law, children, fathers, brothers, sisters is a sign of a long life. In this case, Freud suggests remembering the essence of the conversation or the words spoken, from which to base the decoding of the dream.
According to Tsvetkov
Seeing your ex-wife and mother-in-law or father-in-law means big trouble. Your affairs may worsen, you will find yourself in an awkward position, or become a victim of the treachery of partners or colleagues. The dream also promises an unpleasant business trip for an indefinite period. But to see a wife and mother - on the contrary, to success and a successful outcome of any events, even if they are fraught with troubles.
Esoteric dream book
If you dream of your ex-wife in the company of her relative, then such a dream portends extremely favorable events. This could be a promotion at work, an unexpected jump in career, success at work, a cash bonus and similar events. The more relatives are present, the greater the material benefit.
Seeing your ex-wife's mother-in-law or father-in-law means that in real life you can get support and help from a stranger. For those who are lonely, the dream can be interpreted as a hint that it is time to start a serious relationship. For those newly married or in a relationship, a dream can be a harbinger of a conflict situation or a serious quarrel.
wait for changes
dreamed that your long-forgotten ex wanted to come back? in the near future the dreamer will again find himself in a situation that he has already found himself in before.
if in the night vision the sleeper was upset by the return of his former love, then at work he will find himself in a difficult situation, as a result of which he may find himself unemployed.
dream books assure that such a plot is dreamed of on the eve of a major mistake, because of which life will change dramatically. The nature of the changes is not known, but they may be positive.
Interpretation of a dream with a dance according to the dreamer
Decodings will vary depending on the gender, age, and position of the dreamer. Often, dream interpretations can be opposite for different people.
For an unmarried girl, a dream about dancing will mean quick success, a pleasant acquaintance, and success in business. Perhaps the chosen one will soon propose, and the union will be happy.
For a married woman, a dream about dancing portends success in her personal life, prosperity, and a carefree existence. The relationship with your spouse will be pleasing, and an idyll awaits you in the family.
For a pregnant woman, such a dream is favorable; childbirth will be easy. It is important to pay attention to the environment and gender of the partner, this may be an indication of the gender of the unborn child.
What did you dance in your dream?
Interpretations of sleep also differ according to the type of dance. Thus, fast or slow dance in a dream can have opposite meanings.
Dancing a waltz or any other slow dance with a familiar person in a dream means that in reality the relationship with this person is not as smooth as one would like. The dream foreshadows misunderstandings, groundless grievances, and jealousy.
Ballet in a dream foreshadows entertainment that is far from cultural. Perhaps the dreamer will have to go to some dubious establishment.
Lezginka in a dream and other fast and sharp dances mean hidden desires in the sexual sphere, especially for men.
Tango in a dream means a rash act of the dreamer, which, however, will not cause him regret.
Pair dances usually talk about the relationship with the person with whom the dreamer is dancing. The nature of the dance and the feel of it indicate the problems and tone of this relationship.
