It is generally accepted that if a person dreams, it means that he often remembers and thinks about you. But is this really so? There is no definite answer to this question, because the nature of dreams has not yet been solved. For example, psychologists cannot explain prophetic, prophetic dreams, and the magical point of view does not shed light on the meaning of dreams that reflect childhood trauma or the work of the subconscious.
Accordingly, the answer to the question of whether it is true that the person in your dream is thinking about you must be sought independently by studying the opinions of psychologists and esotericists.
How to find out that someone was dreaming
According to esoteric teaching, night scenarios unfold in a special world - the astral. Such space cannot be explored with known instruments. But it exists. People get there when they go into a deep phase. And what they saw is considered a dream. Researchers claim that events actually occur in another dimension.
Quite reliable signs are built on the described principle. Specifics:
Restless tossing around the pillow is another sign. Wrinkled sheets in the morning are a clue. Someone was dreaming all night long, and you felt it.
MYSTICAL BACKGROUND
In the people, as well as in occult sciences and movements, sleep is explained as a borderline state when the human soul flies out of the body and travels through the astral world. She can meet other souls, intersect and even influence them. That is why dreaming about a loved one was considered one of the reliable ways to make him like you, pay attention to him or regain a lost relationship.
But how to break into other people's dreams? Various sages struggled with the answer; magicians and even scientists devoted research to it. Mysterious knowledge was passed down from generation to generation, carefully guarded and stored. Are there really working methods now that tell you how to dream about your loved one and achieve what you want? Yes, they exist, but it is important to understand some points.
Consciously creating dreams in which you appear to your beloved guy is a rather dubious way to actually please him. Because you won’t know whether you got what you wanted or not.
In order to dream about your loved one, it is not necessary to perform rituals. If a man idolizes a woman, he only dreams about her anyway, but if he doesn’t, it’s unlikely to correct the dream.
Love is an irrational feeling, difficult to control. Act decisively in reality, rather than performing rituals, even those tested by centuries of folk experience, and perhaps you will achieve your goal faster.
However, there are proven ways to help your beloved guy dream at night, and probably even in exciting dreams.
Is it possible to check who is dreaming about me?
Psychologists have identified behavioral factors that indicate a person’s nervous tension. And the latter occurs if the essence of the dream does not correspond in any way to the current level of relationships. For example, just be friends with a guy. And every night he “views” pictures of sex. Naturally, contacts will cause dissonance.
Psychological confirmation that they climbed into another’s dream:
The dreams of an ex are determined by other signs. A man will reveal himself by being active in communicating with mutual friends and on social networks. This happens against our will. A half-forgotten image makes you want to know if everything is okay with you.
Sending a dream
How can a person have a dream, send him a dream? Now that you have fallen into a half-asleep state, conjure up an image of your lover as he appears in the photograph under the pillow. Then imagine that a large fluffy and light cloud forms around it, and you step into it. Feel yourself in it: cool and everything around is like a fog. And in front of you is your goal. But he doesn't see you, and you have to give him some kind of signal. It is at this moment that “launch” in your imagination the scenario of the dream that he should see. Act clearly and confidently.
This method is not at all simple. It works well for those who have a developed imagination and who can concentrate well. If you are distracted for even a second, you will simply lose touch with the other person and fall asleep yourself.
How to specially dream about your beloved girl or guy
There are several techniques for conscious travel along the astral plane. Let's look at the simplest ones that do not harm the performer.
Don't try to sneak into a celebrity's dream. Publicity presupposes a serious level of magical or energetic protection. You will only get hurt.
A conspiracy to get into someone else's dream
The ritual is safe. The most unpleasant thing that can happen is failure. It is practiced when it is known for sure that the man/girl is now sleeping. Prepare:
After midnight, create a magic combination:
The thread is in the eye, my victory. I will enter the dreams of God's servant (name) now. At least for a century, at least for an hour. Amen!
Spell on the moon
The technique is suitable for influencing any person. If you want to attract a sweetheart, read during the new moon and the entire growth phase. To threaten a debtor or an enemy - cast a spell on the decrease. The full moon is a woman's day. Guys are better off giving up influence on their beloved's midnight world.
Like the moon above the earth, so is my image with you (name). From this moment, the whole day. Amen.
Mental order
Visualization is a wonderful way to influence the subconscious of another. Mentally, we are able to create any pictures, that is, to slightly hypnotize the sleeping person.
Be alone. Make yourself comfortable. Imagine that person in front of you. You need to create a clear picture with the smallest details (clothing, figure, face, mood, eye expression).
Envelop the silhouette in a misty haze. It’s as if the figure is being enveloped, dragged into this bluish haze. Now you can mentally follow and form the desired scenario.
WAYS THAT SOMETIMES WORK
In order to dream about your beloved guy, you don’t always need witchcraft. Science knowledge is enough from time to time. But! If you are not sure, you are wary of the magic of our great-grandmothers, it is better not to try.
Using the proposed methods, you can dream of your loved one at least every night, intriguing him more and more. But you shouldn’t overuse it, because games with magic, even the simplest ones, sometimes turn out negatively for the participants in the process.
SMOKE
The ancestors sincerely believed: when smoke rises into the sky, it takes with it the thoughts and secret desires of the one who lit the fire. Using such a guide, you will convey your image to your lover and form the desired dream. To begin, pick the field grass, preferably in an environmentally friendly place, then dry it by preparing a straw bundle.
Before going to bed, select one straw and hide it under your personal pillow, burn the rest near the open window, pointing towards the house where your chosen one lives. While the bundle is burning, mentally imagine the image of your loved one, sincerely wish that you dream about it. As you watch the smoke, think about the man until the last stream melts away.
THOUGHTS
Popular ideas say: the thought is a huge force, capable of creating anything. If you want to dream about your loved one and constantly come to him in your dreams, think about it. Imagine how you are getting closer, caress the guy in your mind’s eye, fantasize about romantic or erotic encounters. Every wish that comes from the soul and has a positive beginning comes true.
FAVORITE TRACK
An ancient way to help you dream about your beloved is a simple shoe print ritual. Invite the object of your dreams home and make your lover leave a mark on the floor. When the man leaves, read a small spell over the shoe print, asking him to dream about a specific guy in his dreams (“just as you entered my home, so I will enter your dreams”), and then do not clean up for several hours, leaving the mark intact. Then wash the floor clean.
PSYCHOLOGICAL METHOD
About 2–4 hours before bedtime, the brain begins to gradually prepare for the upcoming rest. If at this time you remind your loved one about yourself by talking on the phone, Skype or through social networks, there is a high probability that you will dream about him at night. There is no magic: our subconscious easily interprets the brightest evening impression into dreams.
There are several ways to dream about your loved one, and some of them really work. But it’s better to take the initiative in reality in order to surely attract attention and interest the chosen one. And remember: turning to dark magic and love spells of various kinds will not lead to a positive result and will ruin the life of your loved one.
Esoterics
Supporters of this doctrine adhere to the view that everything is not accidental. Dreams indicate an energetic connection between individuals. For example, love, family, dependent, karmic. The more often the counterpart appears in a dream, the more powerful the contact.
The phenomenon is explained by biowaves emanating from a person. The energy will instantly spread in space. You catch it, the subconscious interprets it correctly. That is, he understands exactly that that citizen is thinking about you. Intuitives are able to interact with subtle structures formed by the brain. And the rest barely perceptibly perceive biowaves directed at themselves. The brain reacts by giving a certain signal to the body. One option is a night picture of someone thinking.
But bioenergetic contact is not limited to dreams. Memories may suddenly come flooding back during the day. Or there are smooth mood swings from positive to depressed.
Naturally, when a lover dreams. A person who excites the heart does not leave the imagination either during the day or in the silence of the night. Unfortunately, the picture does not speak about reciprocal dreams. The exception is the case when there is a strong mental connection between you, mutual love.
In a state of sadness, the energy field expands. Lovers naturally pick up on the sadness of the object of their passion. Suddenly there are waves of apathy. And the reason is that the heart partner is languishing in separation.
Do those people think about you? Not always. For example, you dream of idols, artists, politicians who don’t even know you by sight. They certainly think about completely different things and personalities. The image speaks only of the love of wealth and fame.
The world is more complex than teachers and scientists explain to us. It has been proven that alpha waves are emitted by every living creature. They interact in addition to consciousness and fill the information field of the Earth. People don’t wander into dreams for no reason. Some are really sad, others are full of hatred, and with others we are connected by a karmic knot from past incarnations.
Sign: only a person with whom he connects the past or future of any kind can dream. Some people actually experience positive emotions. If the image is familiar, it means it has not been able to completely get you out of your head. Are you bored or have some unresolved questions?
To make everything work out
The second, no less important condition is that no one should know what you are going to do. Especially the one to whom you are sending the dream. Otherwise, you can easily be interfered with.
Third, the plot of the dream you are sending must be meaningful and subject to positive interpretation using a dream book.
Fourth, you need to go to sleep in a state of half-sleep, which can only be achieved in a lying position.
Fifth, it is necessary to send a dream in complete darkness.
Now that you know briefly how to dream about another person, what needs to be done for this and what conditions to meet, it’s time to start practicing.
Astrology
The stars shape the events of our lives. Rest assured, the natal chart contains the trends in the circumstances we face. A dreamed character is a person who in one way or another influences the dreamer’s fate.
Astrologers find out the specifics using calculations. The options are:
The Universe is sending some message or sign. The dreamer is a reflection of ourselves, an indication of our lifestyle, behavior and character. Even if the context is unclear, do not rush to get upset. Try to understand what the plot wants to convey. Maybe not immediately, but understanding will come, sometimes in the form of insight.
Meditation is effective for deciphering dreams. Immerse yourself in your own inner world. Perhaps it's time to stop returning to the past and live in the present? Take a look around. Is it necessary to dream about a dream from a half-forgotten yesterday? After all, today fate provides a different chance for happiness.
Magic
Occult science knows several ways to make a person see a customer in a dream. Magical tools allow you to penetrate the victim’s subconscious and impose feelings and thoughts.
A love spell is a powerful magical action that allows you to bind someone to yourself. The ritual is carried out remotely. And the bewitched person constantly encounters a specific guest in his dreams. The goal is to make you fall in love with yourself using white magic that does not break your will.
A negative picture means that there is an attack on the aura by destructive programs. Magical aggression manifests itself in horrors, nightmares, and painful scenes. A sure sign of such an attack is nervousness, anxiety and health problems.
What to do? Try:
If visions torment or provoke depression, then the damage must be removed. The midnight guest is clearly casting a spell. His goals are unclear, but clearly they do not bring you anything good.
Selecting the recipient
For this, mere imagination is not enough. You need a photograph and a specific item that belongs to that person. His hair would be best. An important detail is that in the photograph the person should look the same as in life. Children's photos or photos taken a long time ago are not suitable.
Before you lie down on the bed, intertwine your lover's hair with yours and place them together under the pillow. Take the photo in your hands and look at it closely. Then close your eyes and imagine the person in front of you. Remember his image and everything, even the smallest details of his appearance. Then place the photo under your pillow next to your hair. If you want your lover to have an erotic dream, sprinkle the photo with rose petals. So, it's time to move on to the next stage.
Psychology
Dream pictures do not depend in any way on another subject. This is a reflection of the impressions of the past day, or the intentions of the sleeper. At night, the body reboots, the brain is cleared of unnecessary information and puts it in order. That is, dream about what life is filled with.
It is rational to turn to dream books to analyze the symbolism. Signs of the subconscious are drawn by animals (cat, snake, horse), phenomena (flood, fire). They are deciphered. Man is an individual phenomenon. It's obvious he means something to you.
What you see shows different things:
Psychoanalyst Freud explains visions by a special mechanism. In a waking state, we do not pay attention to associations and extraneous judgments. All this goes to the subconscious level. In dreams, ideas come to life and appear in the form of symbols. We have to work hard to connect them with reality.
Freud finds meaning in any character. Examples:
What should I do if I don’t dream at all?
Let's look at it from the point of view of astrology. The Moon is responsible for dreams, for the sleep process itself.
The moon is also responsible for comfort, emotions, states of stress or relaxation, our mood, and all unconscious processes.
If your Moon is harmonious
, then you are always in high spirits, you feel your emotions, and do not get drawn into stress and worries.
The tense Moon behaves differently:
if your Moon is tense, you are in a constant state of stress, something irritates you all the time, you are not in the mood, you are always worried about something.
This also affects the quality of your sleep.
A restless mood during the day affects the quality of your sleep: you may toss and turn for a long time, have difficulty falling asleep, and wake up frequently. Dreams will be intense or not at all.
Therefore, in order to dream, you need to harmonize the Moon
- reduce stress to a minimum, stop rushing and fussing, relax more, be in a good, upbeat mood - and also train your intuition.
Everyday psychology
You should not throw away the experience accumulated by generations of ancestors. It has been noticed that we rarely see loved ones with whom we have a good understanding. Ordinary life does not give rise to prophetic dreams.
As soon as you quarrel or get offended, obsessive scenes appear. The emotional mood dictates the plot. This happens because we are bored, angry, offended. It is possible that there is a need to clarify the relationship.
In other words, the focus of attention is shifted towards a certain person. But we do not attach importance to such a factor, perceiving it as natural. And after waking up, we grab a small chance - what if this is a sign, and a friend is thinking about us, calling us, wants to see us?
Esoterics: the main mechanism of clairsentience
The easiest way to feel distant intimacy is with a person who evokes an emotional response. Many people still have feelings after a breakup. That is why they perceive the thoughts of the ex. People are on the same wavelength, mentally connected.
It is more difficult to determine that someone outside is up to no good or is preparing a surprise. But this is also possible. From birth, everyone receives a whole set of talents along with their body. Clairsentience is one of them. But not everyone uses the gift correctly. And all because of disbelief. Science suggests that subconscious insight is a fiction. So we don’t listen to the inner voice, we brush it off.
Sometimes we are firmly convinced that there is a person far away who is constantly thinking about us. Don't talk yourself out of it. This is true. All that remains is to find out the direction of thoughts. What is it: passionate dreams; desire to talk or a vengeful plan?
Half-asleep state
Having come up with a plot in which you play the main role, be sure to check it in the dream book. This is necessary so that the dream carries a positive meaning. Now you need to fall into that same half-asleep state. How to achieve it?
In order to fall into a drowsy state and not fall asleep, you need to collect your thoughts and not lose concentration. Start slowly replaying in your head the plot of the dream you are going to send. Do this several times. And most importantly, visualize your dream. All actions in it must be clear and precise. You must not only imagine it, but also see it before your eyes, as if you were watching a movie. This state is half-sleep. The main thing is to stay in it and not fall asleep. Now it’s time to move on to “sending” the dream.
Psychologists' opinion
Scientists deny the existence of divine prophecies. Psychology identifies other signs that a man constantly keeps your image in his head. Details:
Analogies through shared memories. It works if you haven’t communicated for a long time. But they used to love to eat pizza together. A sudden desire to dine on an Italian dish is a sign that that person has not gotten you out of his head.
Thoughts are revealed by the activity of the object. Against his will, he will choose the road that passes by your home, work, or favorite cafe.
SCIENTIFIC EXPLANATION
People are accustomed to believing: if you dream constantly, then the man you love will form an obsession, and he will definitely want to find the subject of his recurring dreams. Sometimes the belief turns out to be true, and a couple is formed. But science is skeptical about the mystical component of such unions.
It has been scientifically proven that love has chemical aspects of its occurrence. Many people subconsciously feel attracted to each other without comprehending it in any way. A kind of telepathic connection is formed between lovers. She gives birth to dreams in which the object of adoration appears. Then the lovers will say: we dreamed of each other, however, this will not be entirely true.
The dream side of human life is difficult to explain. But there is one unshakable rule: resorting to magic, wanting to gain the favor of the man you like, is a mistake. Such actions will cause negativity and lead to bad consequences, including the death of the bewitched. However, you can try to dream about your loved one if you do not intend to turn to dark help.
