Of course, it’s nice, when plunging into sleep, to see pictures of a joyful and cloudless future. It's even nicer to see you making love. Why dream of making love with your ex? It's worth looking into.
The meaning of sex in a dream
Often dreams of sex are caused by depression and self-doubt. The dreamer's gender and position can tell more.
For a man
If the dreamer is single, he will fall in love with a hypocritical girl. When an engaged man has a dream on the eve of his wedding, it speaks of a future vile act towards his beloved. Married dreamers will go on a business trip and cheat on their spouse there. A sexual dream warns all representatives of the stronger sex to avoid any triggers that could disturb peace of mind.
For woman
According to the general interpretation, women will be successful in implementing long-term plans. Free women will face financial problems. For brides, this is a message from the subconscious about the emergence of new responsibilities. If the dreamer is married, she will have to do low-paid work. A pregnant woman dreamed about the act
A woman will give birth to a girl, she lacks affection and support, or she is dissatisfied with her intimate life or lack thereof.
In virgins
The personification of the subconscious desire to find a partner. Unreasonable fear.
Dreams involving unfamiliar deformed or sick men
The general meaning of these dreams is negative; they usually warn the sleeper about problems, dangers, illnesses and worries. Women who dream of relationships with sick or ugly strangers should soon expect gossip about themselves.
Ladies who dream of men who have a repulsive appearance should in reality take a closer look at their partner. Perhaps all his hidden shortcomings are revealed in dreams sent by the subconscious.
Interpretation from dream books
Forty-six famous dream books from Vanga, Gustav Miller and Sigmund Freud to French, Mayan and Italian uniquely interpret dreamed sex.
Wangi
The famous fortune teller explained the appearance of sex in a dream as a need for it in reality. If intimacy was without feelings, upsetting misunderstandings will soon occur. Unpleasant sensations during sexual intercourse indicate the need to obey, which contradicts the true desires of the dreamer.
When a stranger appears in such a dream as the sleeping person’s partner, it makes sense to think about your complexes. The role of a witness promises fame.
Miller
Mostly a good sign. The dreamer's pleasure from sex indicates that everything is fine with her now and will be in the future, she is pleased with herself. To get promoted, you dream of intimacy with your boss. If an idol becomes your partner, this is the embodiment of problems with the nervous system.
Freud
The founder of psychoanalysis associates sex with cooling towards a partner and impending betrayal, which can lead to a break in the relationship. Changes in the couple’s intimate life will help to avoid this scenario. Proximity in an unfamiliar place indicates a lack of adrenaline.
Loffa
Attraction to the dream guest. Sex with a loved one promises a marriage proposal, a gift or a trip abroad. Classic, routine sexual intercourse is dreamed of on the eve of the realization of a cherished dream, reconciliation with a dear person, meeting with relatives living far away.
Nostradamus
Symbolizing physical and psychological devastation, fatigue and the need for rest. If the partner was unpleasant to the sleeping person, this means problems with money and other troubles. Sex with a celebrity means reward.
Tsvetkova
Quick sexual intercourse is a harbinger of a meeting with a friend, a heart-to-heart conversation. Evgeniy Tsvetkov interprets long sex as future success in entrepreneurship.
Intimacy in public indicates a desire to distance oneself from society. When this happens in water, the dreamer does not have any complexes. If, after waking up, a sleeping person remembers sex on an airplane or helicopter, he needs extreme sports and romance. Unconventional sex is a sign of fear of being deceived by a dear person.
Muslim
Sadness and anxiety.
Enigma
Sex with a lover promises a new level of relationship, harmony or affection for loved ones. Unpleasant sexual intercourse speaks of difficulties and rash decisions.
Other interpretations:
- Gentle sex dreams of mutual understanding with a partner.
- Passionate - lack of attention from the spouse upsets the dreamer.
- Fast - rash decisions will be made in business.
- Failed – reproduction of a real situation.
- Hard – discovering the unpleasant sides of a loved one.
Unsuccessful sexual intercourse promises a string of problems. You should beware of a negative event that will provoke anxiety or disappointment.
Dvoryansky N. Grishina
According to Grishina’s dream book, sex is interpreted differently depending on the participants in the sexual act:
- If a woman slept with a man, she can tune in to good and important events.
- Woman with woman - you have to take part in the secret of the person the dreamer loves.
- A girl with a man - she will be disappointed in love.
- A man with a strange woman means the return of a partner from afar or her death if she lives close to the dreamer.
- A man with a beautiful woman is a great success.
- A man with a married woman is the realization of desires. At the same time, the threat posed by the fulfillment of these desires.
- With the spouse – conflicts in the family.
- With a stranger - prosperity in business, about which the dreamer is not silent.
- Sex with someone you know is a mysterious affair that is destined for success.
- With my sister - a surge of strength.
- With a brother - receiving help from relatives.
- With the mother - a dark path with external success in life or assertion of one’s personality.
- With his father - the dreamer will become the chosen one of fate and honor.
- With a free daughter - for her marriage.
- With a married woman - divorce.
- With a prostitute - happiness destroyed by disease.
- With an animal - benefits and wealth from the qualities characteristic of the dreamed animal. But if it covers the dreamer, it is detrimental.
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Unusual sexual intercourse with a corpse, despite negative associations, promises the purchase of valuable real estate.
Medea
If a teenager had a dream, there are too many taboos in his life.
Egyptian pharaohs
Dreaming of sex with a woman symbolizes negative events and sadness.
Schiller
The closeness of the dreamer or his lover with strangers indicates distrust of the loved one.
Lewis
Watching someone have sex predicts suppression of your feelings related to intimate life, as well as the desire for a fulfilling and harmonious relationship and difficulties in understanding how this can be brought to life. Masochism means rejection of oneself for actions and decisions, punishment.
O. Adaskina
According to this dream book, sex with a mother, whom the dreamer has not seen for a long time, is interpreted as a future meeting. If relatives quarrel in reality, they will make peace in the near future.
Ancient
Doubts about a loved one if the sleeping person or his partner had sex with a stranger.
Newest
Symbolization of dissatisfaction with the sexual sphere of life. Oral sex indicates an upcoming unusual extreme situation in which the dreamer will find himself.
Psychoanalytic
An image of strong love. Manifestation of power and dominance, desire to appease your partner. Other interpretations:
- Emission signifies the sexual nature of one's dream. A plot directed towards emission and with its completion may be the personification of an object of desire in reality or an internal conflict due to the fact that this person obeys the dreamer.
- The hermaphrodite is interpreted as two opposite sexes in the psyche of the sleeper.
- Bisexuality is the dreamer’s internal belonging to both sexes, an internal gender conflict.
- Homosexuality. Homosexuals (like heterosexuals) need connection with a representative of the same sex to cultivate the feminine in themselves. Almost every dreamer experienced a period of teenage homosexuality. Such night dreams may be a regression to this stage. In addition, female and male friendship in a broad sense refers to homosexuality.
- Suppression of heterosexuality. This is a victory over the enemy if the dreamer was characterized by a female role and replacement of incest if it was male.
- The split between heterosexuality and homosexuality. Creative fortitude and vitality. Semen, ejaculation.
- The phallus symbolizes the vital impulse. If he dreams often, the dreamer neglects sexuality.
- Amulets (fetishes) replace a sexual partner, and therefore indicate refusal to have sex with a living person.
- Obstacles during sexual intercourse are a sign of restrictions.
- Sex with clothes on. Trying to hide shame about the size of the genitals.
- Incest. A passionate desire to love and be loved. Women who dream of this type of sexual intercourse also want a family, strong hugs or sex. Men are characterized by a struggle with immorality, but also a desire to free themselves from responsibility, as well as attempts to find the traits of their mother in their sexual partner.
- Perversion. Trying to avoid traditional love.
- Masochism, sadism. The manifestation of the latent form that exists in every person.
It is not uncommon to dream about rape. It reflects the unpreparedness for sex with the dream guest.
Symbolic
Obstacles, stagnation in relationships, delays in business. Insult, unity, emotional and physiological release.
Slavic
Literal interpretation.
Modern N. Stepanova
Pleasant intimacy is interpreted as happiness in personal life. Negative emotions experienced during sex are a warning about the negativity and condemnation that will be the consequences of the implementation of plans. The role of observer of the intimacy of others means the inability to create a family.
Denise Lynn
Sexual symbols and hints, which the dreamer often encounters, indicate a strong libido. Coldness in response to someone's intimate interest means that intense sexual signals are emanating from the sleeping person.
Oriental
Sadness and worry.
Morozova
Sex with satisfaction is a dream of the joys of love. Dissatisfaction, fatigue and stiffness foreshadow mutual cooling with a partner and the search for a new person for a relationship.
People's
Sex with a stranger is a harbinger of shame, disgrace or unfulfilled intimate desires and anxieties that will accompany them. If someone persuaded the sleeping person to have sexual intercourse, someone will try to influence him in order to achieve an act that is unusual for the sleeping person and does not correspond to his interests and moral views.
A large number of lovers is a message from the subconscious about the importance of reconsidering priorities, pushing career and study into the background and taking care of your personal life. Orgasm is the personification of what the dreamer lacks in reality, for example, the realization of sexual fantasies. In addition, such a plot twist may indicate the imminent successful completion of a business or project.
Types of sex: 41 options from classic to extreme
Medieval
Marital sex is deciphered as an upcoming good.
Universal
The best assistant in interpreting an intimate dream is the dreamer’s attitude to the plot. A specific partner may be dreamed of because of passion for him and attraction or desire for his own character to be similar to the traits of the guest in the night dream. Dissolute sex is a desire to open new horizons.
The closeness of the sleeper or his partner to someone else most often reflects the dreamer's fear. If a sleeping person has slept with a relative, he has a need to get closer to this person.
Esoteric
The desire to unite with someone, to create a relationship. Projection of the desire for power and dominance. Sometimes a way to relieve anxiety.
Gypsy
Sexual intercourse, in which the dreamer himself participated, indicates that he will be completely satisfied with the implementation of his plans. If someone else had sex, this is a success.
Erotic
Marital sex for women means non-acceptance of the wife’s position and a desire to change it if the dreamer did not experience pleasure. If she felt good, she was happy with everything.
For men, sex with a spouse indicates fatigue from everyday life and dissatisfaction with the situation in the family, if sexual intercourse was without pleasure or with unpleasant sensations. In contrast to this meaning, the pleasure of intimacy symbolizes satisfaction in all areas of life.
The active role communicates that the dreamer is self-confident and purposeful. Anal sex is a harbinger of deception on the part of a person whom the sleeper strongly trusts. In the dreams of men, it appears if they experience conflict with the opposite sex. Women dream of such developments as a reminder of the importance of silence.
Ritual sex means joining a secret society or knowledge. For women, this is a symbol of career growth, a profitable marriage and the implementation of plans. If the dreamer is a man, he is actually becoming mature. This may concern not only the physical aspect, but also the spiritual: new knowledge, wisdom, experience, a high level of self-awareness.
Group sex is interpreted as the impossibility of imagining your life without a team and friendly connections. Fatigue from sexual intercourse is a reason to take a break from work and family worries.
When you dream of sex in the air, this marks a period of uncertainty and active actions by the dreamer for positive changes in the situation. Equally, it can be a reproduction of the desire to do something unusual, which will become a reason for pride or add more romance to the relationship with a loved one. Sigmund Freud believes that such dreams are a sign of latent homosexuality.
Full of New Era
Strong sexual energy and libido.
Online
Reproducing the absence of any problems in the dreamer’s personal life.
Maly Velesov
Dreaming of sex means delays in business. Doing it will lead to obstacles.
Romantic
The pleasure of sex with a loved one promises serious discord, which will end in a final separation. Intimacy with your spouse is a harbinger of harmony and mutual understanding. Sex with a former partner indicates that the dreamer has not yet cooled down in love for him.
Passionate sex communicates a lack of sensuality and sexual dissatisfaction. If a man made love with a girlfriend, in reality they will experience love feelings. Rudeness in any act represents the desire to dominate.
Dream book of the 21st century
According to this dream book, sex means:
- Future success in all endeavors and affairs, if the dreamer did not accept the offer to have group sex.
- A large amount of time that the sleeper will devote to his loved ones and relatives if he participated in such sexual intercourse.
- The need to reconsider life values and make changes in the management of time if the dreamer participated in an orgy.
- Difficulties and obstacles if the sleeping person watched someone's sexual intercourse.
- Mutual understanding in the family and prosperity if the dreamer makes love with someone.
- But failures and mistakes if such sex did not bring satisfaction.
- Success and love victories, if a woman had a dream.
- Disappointments and failures if a girl slept with a man.
Hasse
The dreamer will soon see the successful implementation of his creative project. A series of erotic dreams occur on the eve of a declaration of love. If the sleeper constantly sees such night dreams, his health will soon improve.
Subconscious
If the dreamer made love to a stranger, the dream warns her of impending lateness for an important event. When a lover appears in such a dream, it means a feeling of guilt. To work in a male team and rumors, you dream of a woman having sex with her husband.
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The closeness of a man with a married woman foreshadows jealousy of his partner and conflict situations.
Wanderer
A good sign promising longevity and a happy life.
Creative
Ahead of receiving offers from competitors. It will be beneficial for the dreamer.
Healers Akulina
Warning about serious illness and long recovery.
Home
Harmony in family relationships.
English
If a woman dreams of going to bed immediately after intercourse, she may be setting herself up for a passionate but short romance.
Autumn
This dream book deciphers women's dreams. The new job is described by sexual intercourse with a guy who is younger than the dreamer. A familiar man in the role of a sexual partner is dreamed of for the attention of an unfree colleague.
Winter
The dream book warns that there is no need to be frank with unfamiliar people, because this will negatively affect the dreamer’s reputation.
French
Morning sex reflects the tiredness of a sleeping person from monotonous work. Daytime - a dream come true. Evening - meeting your future life partner. Night – groundless jealousy and anxiety.
Mayan
A positive interpretation concerns a future romantic evening if a lover becomes a partner in a dream. Seeing sex with someone you know means there is a risk of contracting a sexually transmitted disease.
Italian
Suppressed desires and isolation due to the dictates of morality.
Let's go deeper into details
In many ways, the interpretation of a dream depends on all sorts of details of the plot: the participants in the process, the day of the week when the dream occurred and the frequency of repetition of the night dream. Direct participant in the process
Often, dreams about making love promise happiness and prosperity. You can find out more by remembering who exactly was involved in the sexual act.
Alien sex
Problems and obstacles.
Random witness
Unexpected and unusual positive changes. It is possible that these will be promising acquaintances.
Coincidence
The personification of the dreamer’s intimate problems, for example, dissatisfaction with the actions of a new partner in bed or the inability to open up to him. Number of partners and their gender
Threesome sex speaks about the sleeping person’s attitude towards sex as a sport.
Group sex predicts attention and care for loved ones, especially your partner. If the dreamer’s beloved took part in such an act, this means disappointment in love, followed by distrust of potential partners.
Refusal of group sex is the threshold of a white streak that is productive in spiritual and material terms. After such dreams, creative people can tune in to a surge of inspiration. As a sign of unexpected news or surprise, you dream of watching other people perform such an act. If the dreamer is a pregnant woman, the birth will be accelerated.
Intimacy with men is a sign of the rapid implementation of ideas and plans. For dreamers, sexual intercourse with members of the opposite sex indicates the need for a strong life partner, protection, someone's superiority. Sex with women is interpreted as the future success of current projects in personal life.
Place for sex
The place in which you dreamed about sex also influences the interpretation:
- Car - there are moments in the dreamer’s relationship that do not suit him. It is likely that he wants to change their format to a more serious one.
- Bath. Advice to experiment in your intimate life. This will bring indescribable pleasure.
- Bed. Tired of routine.
- Bathhouse. If a sleeping person is in a relationship with someone, he should prepare for conflict situations or the development of illness. The couple is expecting a new family member. Single people will meet their future great love in the coming weeks or months.
- Public place. It is important to think about every step you take so as not to harm your reputation.
- A dark room. When being in it brings confusion and fear to the dreamer, this may indicate a loss of authority of the sleeper or his mother. Peace and tranquility indicate shelter or maternal support.
- Bright room, bright lighting. If the dreamer was disturbed by the light, his secrets will be exposed.
- Street. If such a pastime of the sleeping person was characterized by awkwardness, this also means the revelation of his secrets.
- Space. The embodiment of the process of improving the dreamer's soul and body.
- Internet. Misconceptions about the state of your affairs and the opinions of those around you.
- Telephone. Subconscious desire to share secrets.
- In front of the mirror. The personification of the desire to receive approval for one’s action, especially if the dreamer was excited and had an orgasm. If there was no orgasm, the dreamer’s self-esteem is inflated, and his claims are unfounded.
- Under the water. The sensual basis of the worldview and character of a sleeping person. The desire for a loved one or to overcome a certain boundary or obstacle in a relationship.
Common plot twists also include sex on the beach. This is a message from the subconscious about the need for romance from a partner and readiness to have a child.
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Mutual consent and pleasure
Consensual sexual intercourse with an acquaintance with whom the dreamer is not in a close relationship symbolizes the woman’s interest in this person. The satisfaction of the sleeping person indicates that everything is fine with her and she is pleased with herself. Orgasm is a message from the subconscious about the need to reconsider your views.
The unusual pose is explained as a desire to add variety to your life, caused by monotony and boredom. According to another interpretation, the dreamer found himself in an unusual position. This could be rearranging furniture, moving, or getting a new position.
For women, this means difficulties with a child. Perhaps the mother feels that he did not live up to her expectations or, on the contrary, exceeded them. For men, this means an unfamiliar position. If the position was unpleasant for them or gave rise to worries about the quality of sex, this indicates fear. An uncomfortable position means embarrassment. A comfortable position and pleasure from intimacy are hopes for new achievements.
Variations of proximity
Blowjob or cunnilingus is the embodiment of dissatisfaction with intimate relationships. After such dreams, girls are advised to think carefully about their words.
Traditional sex is a harbinger of a calm period. If the lack of interesting events, travel and emotions upsets the dreamer, it is worth remembering that there are no problems in his life either. In addition, the classic pose communicates the uncertainty of the dreamer and his partner.
Anal sex warns that you need to be attentive and careful towards others. There may be a selfish traitor among close people.
Not the act itself, but only the proposal
An intimate proposal from the president of the company where the sleeping person works is popular. This is a promotion that will require hard work to obtain.
Self-satisfaction
A sign of anger at yourself due to the inaccurate implementation of your ideas.
Unpleasant situations
Discomfort and shame during sexual intercourse are symbols of tightness not only in the intimate sphere, but also in life in general. It is necessary to unload your psyche and not hide your emotions. Unpleasant proximity is interpreted as interference in the knowledge of the essence of the higher mind.
Choosing a partner
Typically, people dream about sex with partners, friends, acquaintances, celebrities, mystical entities, relatives and work-related people. Each partner has a unique interpretation.
Husband wife
If you dream of a spouse, he and the dreamer have a strong union, mutual understanding and harmony. The dreamer is lucky because she is completely safe with him. When a spouse appears in a dream, this means stops and delays in business, the possible freezing of some project.
Friend, girlfriend
Dreaming with a friend means that the dreamer is strongly attached to the guest of the night dream and needs him. If you dreamed about a friend, this can be interpreted as a desire for lesbian love, a new level of intimate life, or a lack of affection and tenderness in a relationship with a partner. Sex between a husband and a girlfriend promises the collapse of expectations, plans and prospects.
Favorite person
The partner is waiting for the dreamer to take a step that will confirm the seriousness of their relationship. You should also be prepared for a positive mood provoked by joyful events and good news.
Former partner
Retribution for past sins that are not necessarily related to an ex-boyfriend or girlfriend. In addition, the dream may warn of a danger that threatens the relationship with your current significant other.
Stranger
Changes in life are ahead. The dreamer’s emotions experienced in a dream can tell about their character. It is also a symbolization of the burden of internal prohibitions and dreams of going beyond.
Familiar
Don't worry about achieving your goals. Everything will go well and without problems, luck is on the dreamer’s side.
Same-sex
An unkind sign that promises serious trouble. You should avoid dubious enterprises and the influence of other people.
Popular personality
If the sleeping person made love to a celebrity, he wants his own fame or to be involved in the fame of another person. An active role foreshadows a surge of strength. For a guy, such a dream means that he will have a patron and a successful career awaits him.
Mystical entity
Such an unusual plot can promise variety in everyday life. Much depends on what the fantastic creature and sex with him were like. If sexual intercourse was unpleasant and the partner was disgusted, this is due to negative people in the dreamer’s environment and emotions. Sympathy and pleasure from sex with a creature seen in a dream may indicate a person with whom the sleeper enjoys communicating in reality.
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Fantastic creatures can represent not only people, but also current situations in the lives of dreamers in which they are immersed. In such cases, it is a subconscious perception of conditions.
If you happen to have sex with the devil, this means a large number of fans who will only be interested in intimacy. A vampire in such a dream foreshadows happy moments, pleasure and pleasant events.
Deceased (deceased)
After such a dream, you can count on wealth, profit or a valuable gift from a high-ranking person. Acquiring a dreamer will be profitable and useful for starting your own business. If a girl saw a dream, new sides of her sexuality will soon be revealed. Relative
In general, intimacy with a relative speaks of a trusting relationship between the sleeping person and the person he dreamed about. The dreamer can always rely on his family.
Father or mother
A dream about sex with dad is a recommendation from the subconscious to abandon stereotypes that were imposed by someone. Equally, it’s time to stop looking for traits characteristic of your father in every potential partner. This makes it difficult to improve your personal life.
If the main role falls to the mother, this is a reproduction of the simultaneous combination of love and fear that the dreamer feels for his mother. For men, this is a message about suppressed sinful desires and the search for women who are similar in appearance to their relatives.
Brother or sister
Intimacy with one's brother means strong family ties and the confidence that, if necessary, the dreamer will receive the support of relatives. Sex with your sister has a similar interpretation.
Mother-in-law or father-in-law
Disgust from intimacy with these relatives promises slippery situations and bad news. In contrast to this meaning, the attractiveness of a mother-in-law or father-in-law predicts success. According to another version, such a development of events symbolizes leadership in the family.
wife's sister
Symbolizes the lack of affection and tenderness from your partner. The dreamer thinks that he can get all this from his sister-in-law, but most often such thoughts are wrong.
Brother husband
Interest in the brother-in-law and comparison of the spouse with him.
Stepfather
Unusual events.
Aunt
Strengthening family ties and trust between dear people.
Boss
Sex with the boss is interpreted as the dreamer mispositioning himself. You must show your character. Intimacy with your boss also promises rapid career growth.
Colleague
Envy of a co-worker or other person associated with the dreamer’s work.
Classmate
The embodiment of internal unrest and torment. Among the most common explanations for such anxiety is an unsatisfied fantasy.
Girlfriend's boyfriend
A warning about serious difficulties associated with a project or business that the dreamer is currently working on. Other plans will also be ruined. You should be patient and remember that after the night there always comes dawn.
Old man
The chance to fulfill your desires, the favorable period for this, has been missed. In the future, everything can work out only with outside help.
Animal
Significant income. You should pay attention to the qualities of the animal, since it is these that the dreamer can find in himself and use to his advantage.
Other heroes
Sex with the president is considered a good sign. It portends an increase or increase in wages.
Sexual intercourse with an actor or actress is a subconscious message about possible family conflicts. If a woman had such a dream, in reality she is dissatisfied with her intimate life.
Sex with a child means sadness because children do not live up to their parents' expectations and dreams. You need to accept them as they are.
Intimacy with a teacher is the epitome of interaction with a boss or mentor.
process interpretation
To determine a reliable interpretation, it is necessary to take into account the details of the ongoing process.
- caresses are usually seen when a man dreams of you.
- embraced - to a major conflict or betrayal.
- kisses - you will be praised and generously rewarded.
- strong passionate feelings embody conflict situations and difficulties in business.
- caresses are usually seen when a man dreams of you.
- embraced - to a major conflict or betrayal.
- kisses - you will be praised and generously rewarded.
- strong passionate feelings embody conflict situations and difficulties in business.
If you dream often
Frequent repetition of erotic dreams is due either to the brain processing information received in reality or to the fact that the sleeping person thinks a lot about sex. In addition, the dream may indicate a lack of attention from your partner.
Intimacy is an ambiguous plot twist. It can symbolize and warn about various phenomena and events. Interpretations differ depending on dream books and different details of the dream. The main thing that every dreamer should remember is that not a single prophecy is a sentence; a negative prediction can always be neutralized if you pay attention to the messages of the subconscious and the Universe in time.
Choose!
Why dream if sex did not bring the desired sensations? Soon you will have to make a difficult choice: rely on fate and wait, or act decisively in order to ensure a decent existence.
Did you dream that after love you were overcome by fatigue? The dream book is sure: it is urgent to change the situation and take a break from work and family. It's bad to see that you were literally forced into bed. This means that in reality you have to submit to the will or opinion of another.
